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Psychologists are sure that masturbating before a date helps to select the right candidate and, most importantly, to calm down
According to statistics, 9 out of 10 people drown in stress before a date, and a third even calm their nerves with alcohol masturbation is much better in this case:
1. It will save the nervous system
During arousal, dopamine and endorphins are produced in the brain, and after an orgasm prolactin and oxytocin. They reduce the level of cortisol and anxiety, which are responsible for incoherent speech, excessive explanations, and laughing at jokes too late. You will arrive at the date as a relatively normal person, which is a competitive advantage at the first meeting.
2. The meeting will be meaningful
Most of the tension on a date is related to sexual subtext. People spend too much energy on introducing sexual topics, and the lack of context intensifies the tension. Preliminary solving the "problem" helps to start listening, asking meaningful questions, and interacting with the interlocutor, rather than just mentally undressing them.
3. You won't get into a relationship that you'll later regret
When there's a mutual attraction between people, tunnel vision activates. And then compatibility takes a back seat in favor of an erection. The desire can be strong, but it's not always honest with you. If the orgasm has already occurred, the situation becomes less acute and it's easier to notice red flags. In general, make decisions based on desires, not three glasses of wine.
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