• Re: Fireman

    From Mike Spencer@mds@bogus.nodomain.nowhere to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 02:11:46 2026
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    Bertel Lund Hansen <rundtosset@lundhansen.dk> writes:

    Den 05.08.2026 kl. 19.26 skrev Bertel Lund Hansen:

    When I use "unisex" bathroom, I mean a facility with a lockable door
    that can be used by anyone. The lockable door ensures the privacy.

    I don't think that that is enough for all women to feel safe when they
    have a very private thing to handle (not just peeing).

    I shouldn't have written that. I have no idea how women feel in
    different situations. The article had just made me wonder if unisex bathrooms was a good idea.

    Over 40 years ago, before all the media/political crap about public
    bathrooms happened, I was at a week-long craft workshop with a dozen
    or so each of blacksmiths, weavers, potters and (I forget) another
    serious craft. Something calamitous had happened to the women's
    facility and the only option (unless you walked a couple of hundred
    yards to another building) was the men's.

    The men's had urinals of course, and cubicles with doors. There was a
    ceratin amount of laughter about the whole thing but it was a bunch of
    mostly young people liberal and creative enough to have chosen careers
    as independent artists. Everybody behaved themselves and it was a
    non-problem. If anyone was deeply offended, felt threatened or was
    otherwise unable comfortably to cope, they didn't organize a protest
    or hurl accusations.
    --
    Mike Spencer Nova Scotia, Canada
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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 06:29:26 2026
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    Le 06/08/2026 |a 10:20, Aidan Kehoe a |-crit :

    The real existing situation where men are unambiguously inconvenienced when it
    comes to toilet provision is in maternity hospitals (at least the ones I have been in.) This was a minor annoyance. Four months in obstetrics and gynaecology
    was the worst job of my life, but not for that reason.


    Women may have made a poor decision when they became viviparous. It's so
    much easier to lay an egg.

    Hibou (cousin to the old dinosaurs)

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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 10:47:08 2026
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    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 06/08/2026 a 10:20, Aidan Kehoe a ocrit :

    The real existing situation where men are unambiguously inconvenienced
    when it comes to toilet provision is in maternity hospitals (at least
    the ones I have been in.) This was a minor annoyance. Four months in obstetrics and gynaecology was the worst job of my life, but not for
    that reason.


    Women may have made a poor decision when they became viviparous. It's so
    much easier to lay an egg.

    Hibou (cousin to the old dinosaurs)

    But she has to sit on it, and to keep the hatchlings warm,
    in the perhaps vain hope that M. Hibou will bring in dinner every day,
    for weeks on end.

    Jan

    PS, and FYA, I hope: You no doubt missed it,
    but there were shocking happenings,
    at former ENCI quarry in Maastricht, Limburg.
    M. Hibou is normally strictly monogamous,
    because bringing in all that food for one Mme. Hibou is hard work.

    However, the birders watching them at ENCI had a surprise:
    after hearing him at it with Mme. Hibou,
    with the characteristic sounds of it,
    they heard him an hour later with another Mme. Hibou,
    less than a kilometer away.
    This is a 'first ever' observation of Hibou bigamy.


    Surprise ending: He is a really grand Hibou:
    both nests survived, three in one, two in the other.
    All those Rodentia there must have had a hard time of it.
    (blame global warming, I guess)

    Chances of hanky-panky between half- brothers and sisters is small:
    after leaving the nest they travel far and wide.


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  • From Janet@nobody@home.com to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 16:56:12 2026
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    In article <87ik5mtsz1.fsf@enoch.nodomain.nowhere>,
    mds@bogus.nodomain.nowhere says...

    Bertel Lund Hansen <rundtosset@lundhansen.dk> writes:

    Den 05.08.2026 kl. 19.26 skrev Bertel Lund Hansen:

    When I use "unisex" bathroom, I mean a facility with a lockable door
    that can be used by anyone. The lockable door ensures the privacy.

    I don't think that that is enough for all women to feel safe when they
    have a very private thing to handle (not just peeing).

    I shouldn't have written that. I have no idea how women feel in
    different situations. The article had just made me wonder if unisex bathrooms was a good idea.

    Over 40 years ago, before all the media/political crap about public
    bathrooms happened,

    I'm astonished you think this is media/political crap about toilets.


    > I was at a week-long craft workshop with a dozen
    or so each of blacksmiths, weavers, potters and (I forget) another
    serious craft. Something calamitous had happened to the women's
    facility and the only option (unless you walked a couple of hundred
    yards to another building) was the men's.

    The men's had urinals of course, and cubicles with doors. There was a ceratin amount of laughter about the whole thing but it was a bunch of
    mostly young people liberal and creative enough to have chosen careers
    as independent artists. Everybody behaved themselves and it was a non-problem. If anyone was deeply offended, felt threatened or was
    otherwise unable comfortably to cope, they didn't organize a protest
    or hurl accusations.

    $0 years ago, your creative liberal friends were not dealing with gender-activist nutcases demanding access to womens safe spaces to
    abuse women and obtain sexual gratification.


    https://tinyurl.com/4rbdkavu

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isla_Bryson_case

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2edeyzz0xmo


    Janet.




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  • From athel.cb@gmail.com@user12588@newsgrouper.org.invalid to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 16:42:58 2026
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    Janet <nobody@home.com> posted:

    In article <87ik5mtsz1.fsf@enoch.nodomain.nowhere>, mds@bogus.nodomain.nowhere says...

    Bertel Lund Hansen <rundtosset@lundhansen.dk> writes:

    Den 05.08.2026 kl. 19.26 skrev Bertel Lund Hansen:

    When I use "unisex" bathroom, I mean a facility with a lockable door >>> that can be used by anyone. The lockable door ensures the privacy.

    I don't think that that is enough for all women to feel safe when they >> have a very private thing to handle (not just peeing).

    I shouldn't have written that. I have no idea how women feel in different situations. The article had just made me wonder if unisex bathrooms was a good idea.

    Over 40 years ago, before all the media/political crap about public bathrooms happened,

    I'm astonished you think this is media/political crap about toilets.

    What astonishes me, Janet, is how many real women are lobbying in favour of letting
    men invade women's spaces. Emily Thornberry MP is just one example out of many possible ones. Can you explain why this should be so?

    https://tinyurl.com/4rbdkavu

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isla_Bryson_case

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2edeyzz0xmo

    All those (and other) examples are just brushed aside as one in a million exceptions.
    --
    athel

    Living in Marseilles for 39 years; mainly in England before that,
    with long periods in Singapore, California, Chile and Canada
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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 21:13:49 2026
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    <athel.cb@gmail.com> wrote:

    nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) posted:

    Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org> wrote:

    On 06/08/26 02:03, Bertel Lund Hansen wrote:
    Den 05.08.2026 kl. 17.46 skrev Hibou:

    And anyway, some men piss on the seat. Gosh! Some might even do it
    misogynistically if compelled to use unisex facilities.

    Not just the seat. They piss all over the floor. I've played in a bridge
    club where it took less that half an hour for the floor to be pissed. A humouristic sign didn't make any difference. One line thereon:

    Stand closer. It's not as long as you think.

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint
    a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport, but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.

    If you follow affairs in the USA you will know that there is an Ohio congressman called Max Miller, who appears to be a really charming chap,
    but is accused of slamming his ex-wife into a wall, attacking her with scalding hot water, pointing a gun at her head, and fracturing their 2-year-old daughter's collarbone. However, all that pales into
    insignificance compared with the really shocking claim that he circulated
    a photograph in which his daughter's genital region could be discerned.

    Veux pas le savoir,

    Jan




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  • From Tony Cooper@tonycooper214@gmail.com to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 16:22:22 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On Fri, 7 Aug 2026 21:13:49 +0200, nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J.
    Lodder) wrote:

    <athel.cb@gmail.com> wrote:

    nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) posted:

    Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org> wrote:

    On 06/08/26 02:03, Bertel Lund Hansen wrote:
    Den 05.08.2026 kl. 17.46 skrev Hibou:

    And anyway, some men piss on the seat. Gosh! Some might even do it
    misogynistically if compelled to use unisex facilities.

    Not just the seat. They piss all over the floor. I've played in a bridge
    club where it took less that half an hour for the floor to be pissed. A
    humouristic sign didn't make any difference. One line thereon:

    Stand closer. It's not as long as you think.

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint >> > > a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport, >> > > but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.

    If you follow affairs in the USA you will know that there is an Ohio
    congressman called Max Miller, who appears to be a really charming chap,
    but is accused of slamming his ex-wife into a wall, attacking her with
    scalding hot water, pointing a gun at her head, and fracturing their
    2-year-old daughter's collarbone. However, all that pales into
    insignificance compared with the really shocking claim that he circulated
    a photograph in which his daughter's genital region could be discerned.

    Veux pas le savoir,

    More shocking are the current reports of Max withholding the "Blue
    Bunny" from his daughter. The blue bunny is a stuffed toy that the
    child carried and slept with. When Max had custody, there were
    several times he didn't send the child back to her mother with the toy
    and held it back for days.

    Any parent who has a child who had a favorite stuffed toy, knows
    there's no peace until the toy is reunited if separated for any time.
    That's abuse of the child and the mother.

    With our daughter, it was "Honey Bunny". We once turned back almost
    an hour into a road trip to return home for "Honey Bunny".




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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Fri Aug 7 22:52:12 2026
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    Tony Cooper <tonycooper214@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Fri, 7 Aug 2026 21:13:49 +0200, nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J.
    Lodder) wrote:

    <athel.cb@gmail.com> wrote:

    nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) posted:
    [-]
    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.

    If you follow affairs in the USA you will know that there is an Ohio
    congressman called Max Miller, who appears to be a really charming chap, >> but is accused of slamming his ex-wife into a wall, attacking her with
    scalding hot water, pointing a gun at her head, and fracturing their
    2-year-old daughter's collarbone. However, all that pales into
    insignificance compared with the really shocking claim that he circulated >> a photograph in which his daughter's genital region could be discerned.

    Veux pas le savoir,

    More shocking are the current reports of Max withholding the "Blue
    Bunny" from his daughter. The blue bunny is a stuffed toy that the
    child carried and slept with. When Max had custody, there were
    several times he didn't send the child back to her mother with the toy
    and held it back for days.

    Any parent who has a child who had a favorite stuffed toy, knows
    there's no peace until the toy is reunited if separated for any time.
    That's abuse of the child and the mother.

    With our daughter, it was "Honey Bunny". We once turned back almost
    an hour into a road trip to return home for "Honey Bunny".

    Yes, the cruelty of Lucy with respect to Linus and his blanket
    is wel known, also outside the USA.
    She can be forgiven, but no adult can,

    Jan






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  • From Peter Moylan@peter@pmoylan.org to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 09:29:00 2026
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    On 08/08/26 02:42, athel.cb@gmail.com wrote:

    What astonishes me, Janet, is how many real women are lobbying in
    favour of letting men invade women's spaces. Emily Thornberry MP is
    just one example out of many possible ones. Can you explain why this
    should be so?

    One advantage of a unisex public toilet: a man who wants to molest a
    woman in there has to deal with the fact that there will be other men
    coming through the door. In a women-only facility there is less protection.
    --
    Peter Moylan peter@pmoylan.org http://www.pmoylan.org
    Newcastle, NSW
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  • From Tony Cooper@tonycooper214@gmail.com to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 00:40:38 2026
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    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 09:29:00 +1000, Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org>
    wrote:

    On 08/08/26 02:42, athel.cb@gmail.com wrote:

    What astonishes me, Janet, is how many real women are lobbying in
    favour of letting men invade women's spaces. Emily Thornberry MP is
    just one example out of many possible ones. Can you explain why this
    should be so?

    One advantage of a unisex public toilet: a man who wants to molest a
    woman in there has to deal with the fact that there will be other men
    coming through the door. In a women-only facility there is less protection.


    I don't have a lot of experience with public restrooms, but the
    "unisex" restrooms that I see are toilets that accomodate one person
    at a time. For example, a Wendy's that I go to occasionally used to
    have a "Men's" and a "Women's". They changed to both being for either
    gender. First come, first served. The door is lockable.

    None of the larger restrooms, that have several stalls (and, in the
    "Men's", some urinals on the wall) have changed to "Unisex".

    I take it some are different in other places.

    The only place I've ever been where there was some - shall we say,
    "confusion" - was in Key West during "Fantasy Week". When I went in
    the "Men's", the person standing at a urinal was wearing high heels,
    and a dress hiked up to use the urinal. I wasn't sure if I was in the
    right room or not.

    ("Fantasy Fest" is a gay event in a city that has a gay event going on somewhere 365 days a year.)
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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 07:08:56 2026
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    Le 07/08/2026 |a 09:47, J. J. Lodder a |-crit :
    Hibou wrote:

    Women may have made a poor decision when they became viviparous. It's so
    much easier to lay an egg.

    Hibou (cousin to the old dinosaurs)

    But she has to sit on it, and to keep the hatchlings warm,
    in the perhaps vain hope that M. Hibou will bring in dinner every day,
    for weeks on end. [...]


    Sitting on eggs and hunter-gathering in the supermarket are shareable
    tasks, in line with our Zeitgeist.

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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 07:08:56 2026
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    Le 06/08/2026 |a 09:51, J. J. Lodder a |-crit :
    Peter Moylan wrote:

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint
    a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport,
    but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.
    The design has been much copied.


    Hmm. Kiss my arse!

    The rim is the wrong place, not a good aiming point. In any bowl there
    should be a sweet spot-| where the stream will bounce off in safe
    directions. That's the place to put the painted fly.

    -|Term under review.

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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 11:57:26 2026
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    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 06/08/2026 a 09:51, J. J. Lodder a ocrit :
    Peter Moylan wrote:

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint
    a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport, >> but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.
    The design has been much copied.


    Hmm. Kiss my arse!

    FYI, sitting on red-lipped urinals to get your arse kissed
    is not recommended.
    Apart from fellow users objecting strongly to the indecent exposure
    the thing may not be fixed to the wall by sufficiently strong bolts,

    Jan
    (boggled)

    The rim is the wrong place, not a good aiming point. In any bowl there
    should be a sweet spot? where the stream will bounce off in safe
    directions. That's the place to put the painted fly.

    ?Term under review.
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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 11:57:26 2026
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    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 07/08/2026 a 09:47, J. J. Lodder a ocrit :
    Hibou wrote:

    Women may have made a poor decision when they became viviparous. It's so >> much easier to lay an egg.

    Hibou (cousin to the old dinosaurs)

    But she has to sit on it, and to keep the hatchlings warm,
    in the perhaps vain hope that M. Hibou will bring in dinner every day,
    for weeks on end. [...]


    Sitting on eggs and hunter-gathering in the supermarket are shareable
    tasks, in line with our Zeitgeist.

    But Mme. Hibou hasn't caught up with the Zeitgeist.
    She is strictly a tradwife. She has no choice about it,
    because she is far too heavy to do the gathering for the family.
    The heaviest M. Hibou is still way lighter than the lightest Mme.
    The rabbits will just laugh at her.

    What worked fine for your loose-living cousin
    (let Mme. T. Queen do the egg-carrying and providing)
    will not work as nicely for Mme. Hibou.
    Flight is much harder than stomping through the forest,

    Jan


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  • From Phil@phil@anonymous.invalid to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 11:01:30 2026
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    On 07/08/2026 06:29, Hibou wrote:
    Le 06/08/2026 |a 10:20, Aidan Kehoe a |-crit :

    The real existing situation where men are unambiguously inconvenienced
    when it
    comes to toilet provision is in maternity hospitals (at least the ones
    I have
    been in.) This was a minor annoyance. Four months in obstetrics and
    gynaecology
    was the worst job of my life, but not for that reason.


    Women may have made a poor decision when they became viviparous. It's so much easier to lay an egg.

    Hibou (cousin to the old dinosaurs)


    I've occasionally been tempted to speculate on the ways that human
    society would have been different if we'd been marsupials. AI-controlled artificial pouch, anyone?
    --
    Phil B

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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 11:29:25 2026
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    Le 08/08/2026 |a 10:57, J. J. Lodder a |-crit :
    Hibou wrote:

    Sitting on eggs and hunter-gathering in the supermarket are shareable
    tasks, in line with our Zeitgeist.

    But Mme. Hibou hasn't caught up with the Zeitgeist.
    She is strictly a tradwife. She has no choice about it,
    because she is far too heavy to do the gathering for the family.
    The heaviest M. Hibou is still way lighter than the lightest Mme.
    The rabbits will just laugh at her.


    Well, I was talking of humans laying eggs. The female of the feathered
    kind of owl is heavier, it's true (which is strange, because they don't
    eat chocolate), e.g.:

    -2 Le poids du m|ole varie de 2 |a 2,5 kg, celui de la femelle de 2,5 |a 3,3 kg -+ -
    <https://fr.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hibou_grand-duc>

    What worked fine for your loose-living cousin
    (let Mme. T. Queen do the egg-carrying and providing)
    will not work as nicely for Mme. Hibou.
    Flight is much harder than stomping through the forest,


    Stomping? -2 Il a un vol agile et silencieux malgr|- sa grande taille, car
    il est dot|- comme la plupart des oiseaux nocturnes d'un plumage
    duveteux, tr|?s flexible, qui lui permet de voler sans bruit. -+

    Silent flight is all very well, but grocery deliveries and online
    ordering are less effort.

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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 20:21:47 2026
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    <athel.cb@gmail.com> wrote:

    [...]
    Beira's Place, in Edinburgh, as I'm sure you know. I have been going through its web site and cannot find anything that can be called
    "using a toilet has now become weaponised by anti-transgender hate groups". Can you point out what I've missed?

    You have missed their assertion that they help all women equally but transgender women aren't (in their opinion) women.


    Gosh. So your criterion for weaponising use of a toilet is following a policy that men who say they are women are not women. Can you not find anything more hateful than that that Beira's Place is guilty of?

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs which canot be applied rigidly to the wide
    spectrum that occurs in the real World. If you cannot tell whether
    someone is a man or a woman, it does not matter which toilet they use.

    Incidentally the thanks you get for defending Amnesty's slander is to get dumped in the toilet yourself by Amnesty. It now says: "We apologise for the publication of the briefing 'A growing threat: the anti-rights movement
    in the UK.' This document should never have been published, and full responsibility for this error rests with Amnesty International UK." Oh dear. Do you still think they were right to slander Beira's Place and many other charities?

    Amnesty didn't slander them, Beira's Place threatened to sue Amnesty for slander but were never required to prove it.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 20:21:48 2026
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    Janet <nobody@home.com> wrote:

    In article <1rz0url.1633uog1fykxskN%liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid>, liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid says...

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]

    Only time to address a few points as I am packing for a holiday.

    For Women Scotland did not form in a vacuum for the purpose of
    oppressing trans- people.

    They have done almost nothing else.

    [...]
    I get the impression you see the issue mainly, or even solely, in terms of the rights of trans- people. These people must have their rights, like anybody else.

    But it has to be recognised that granting their desired rights in full would impinge upon other people's rights, in particular those of women.

    There is no conflict between transgender rights and women's rights, this has been manufactured. Look at the number of replies from people who
    live outside the UK saying they don't know what the fuss is all about.

    They're all men, and some of them are apparently unaware of what happened in UK law and politics in recent years. Ignorance can be
    excused.

    The real ignorance is among UK politicians and cannot be excused.


    What's harder to understand is if they are unaware of any "fuss" about
    sex identity in international sports.

    Just look at all those award-winning trans athletes who have abused the
    system and are now at the top of their profession - can you name any?
    There is no problem, that's why there is no need for a fuss.

    Sport is inherently unfair - should we start banning people from sports
    who have inherent advantages of height or strength because of their
    ethnic origins? Why just pick on transgender people, why not start
    banning athletes based on race? This is the road we are starting to go
    down.


    I believe a women's group should be able to open itself to or restrict itself from trans-women, as appropriate.

    They have done so for decades where it mattered and didn't need a law to behave sensibly.

    Lets remember who didn't "behave sensibly".

    For decades we didn't need law to define the sex of a "father" who carried a foetus in her uterus and gave birth through her vagina. Until
    "self identifying transman " demanded to be registered as the father of
    the child she gave birth to.

    We shouldn't have needed a law that a convicted male rapist cannot self-identify as a woman, in order to be incarcerated in a womens prison where he raped more women with his penis. Until he did.

    I can find headlines about that but no facts. Do you have a reference?

    As far as I know, somone accused of rape was held within the 'estate' of
    a women's prison, separately from any women, for one night. If I were a rapist, the last place I would want to be held would be a women's prison
    - I would probably find myself castrated within a few days.

    How will banning transgender men and women from toilets prevent rapes?
    Transmen cannot rape and no rape by a transwoman in a toilet has ever
    been recorded (many of them, structurally and hormonally, are
    indistinguishable from women).

    How do you propose enforcing this artificial segregation? Genital
    inspection? Requiring a birth certificate? "We can always tell"? None
    of those would detect a transwoman or a transman.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
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  • From Sam Plusnet@not@home.com to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 20:25:33 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 08/08/2026 10:57, J. J. Lodder wrote:
    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 06/08/2026 |a 09:51, J. J. Lodder a |-crit :
    Peter Moylan wrote:

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint >>>> a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport, >>>> but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.
    The design has been much copied.


    Hmm. Kiss my arse!

    FYI, sitting on red-lipped urinals to get your arse kissed
    is not recommended.
    Apart from fellow users objecting strongly to the indecent exposure
    the thing may not be fixed to the wall by sufficiently strong bolts,

    Jan
    (boggled)

    Was that last bit a subtle reference to a BrE slang term?
    --
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  • From Alan Mackenzie@acm@muc.de to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 20:42:51 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Welcome back!

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    <athel.cb@gmail.com> wrote:

    [...]
    Beira's Place, in Edinburgh, as I'm sure you know. I have been going through its web site and cannot find anything that can be called
    "using a toilet has now become weaponised by anti-transgender hate groups". Can you point out what I've missed?

    You have missed their assertion that they help all women equally but transgender women aren't (in their opinion) women.

    Gosh. So your criterion for weaponising use of a toilet is following
    a policy that men who say they are women are not women. Can you not
    find anything more hateful than that that Beira's Place is guilty of?

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs which canot be applied rigidly to the wide
    spectrum that occurs in the real World.

    There is no such "wide spectrum". There are women, men, and a
    vanishingly small number of sexual anomalies. I'm a member of a social
    group of ~50 people from a wide spectrum of ages with slightly more
    women than men, and every one of us is distinctly male or distinctly
    female.

    If you cannot tell whether someone is a man or a woman, it does not
    matter which toilet they use.

    As I noted in another post on this thread, I no longer share that view.

    Incidentally the thanks you get for defending Amnesty's slander is to
    get dumped in the toilet yourself by Amnesty. It now says: "We
    apologise for the publication of the briefing 'A growing threat: the anti-rights movement in the UK.' This document should never have been published, and full responsibility for this error rests with Amnesty International UK." Oh dear. Do you still think they were right to
    slander Beira's Place and many other charities?

    Amnesty didn't slander them, Beira's Place threatened to sue Amnesty for slander but were never required to prove it.

    Amnesty libelled many, many groups (~60, I think it was), denouncing
    them as "anti-rights" groups. As far as I am aware, the possibility of launching legal action for defamation is still open to (at least some
    of) these groups.

    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    --
    Alan Mackenzie (Nuremberg, Germany).

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  • From Tony Cooper@tonycooper214@gmail.com to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 16:52:04 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 20:21:47 +0100, liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid
    (Liz Tuddenham) wrote:

    <athel.cb@gmail.com> wrote:

    [...]
    Beira's Place, in Edinburgh, as I'm sure you know. I have been going
    through its web site and cannot find anything that can be called
    "using a toilet has now become weaponised by anti-transgender hate
    groups". Can you point out what I've missed?

    You have missed their assertion that they help all women equally but
    transgender women aren't (in their opinion) women.


    Gosh. So your criterion for weaponising use of a toilet is following a policy
    that men who say they are women are not women. Can you not find anything more
    hateful than that that Beira's Place is guilty of?

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs which canot be applied rigidly to the wide
    spectrum that occurs in the real World.

    Fascinating argument! An "artificial construct" is something created
    by humans that are not based on natural phenomena. Continuing, a
    "natural phenomenon" is an observable event that occurs in nature
    without human intervention, including biological processes. Yet, we
    assign words (artifically construct them) to identify the biological
    process.

    Aren't all words "artificial constructs", then?

    Therefore, English words like "Husband" and "Wife" are also artificial constructs and which cannot be applied rigidly to the wide spectrum
    that occurs in the real world. Equally, "home", "happy", "handsome",
    and all other words.

    The problem with dismissing those words is that they are all we have
    to convey meaning to others.

    Your point seems to be that we occasionally misapply "man" or "woman"
    based on superficial identification. Dismissing the terms because
    they are sometimes misapplied leads to dismissing all words that are
    misapplied by some.

    Drifting a bit...I find it difficult to be particularly concerned
    about public bathroom safety for women because - in the real world -
    women are vulnerable to attack in any space where they are in an
    isolated, confined, or low traffic space. A public bathroom is no
    more dangerous than any other such space.

    In the reports I've seen of women being molested, the victims are more
    likely to be on joggers or hikers on trails, women on back streets at
    night, or women in their own bedroom. Trump "allegedly" assaulted
    E. Jean Carroll in a dressing room in a crowded department store.

    It is right to be concerned about woman's safety, but *anywhere*, not particularly in public bathrooms.



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  • From Kerr-Mudd, John@admin@127.0.0.1 to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 22:12:07 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 07:08:56 +0100
    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:
    Le 06/08/2026 a 09:51, J. J. Lodder a ocrit :
    Peter Moylan wrote:

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint
    a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport, >> but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.
    The design has been much copied.


    Hmm. Kiss my arse!

    The rim is the wrong place, not a good aiming point. In any bowl there should be a sweet spot| where the stream will bounce off in safe
    directions. That's the place to put the painted fly.

    |Term under review.

    For me it is a point at about 20 degrees off base (my preference left) ,
    where splashback is minimal - the stream mostly redirected inward and
    down toward the central base exit.
    Gosh isn't this an exciting topic to discuss to see if international preferences differ?!
    /~~~~~\
    | |
    \ /
    \x /
    \./
    x marks the spot
    --
    Bah, and indeed Humbug.
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  • From Kerr-Mudd, John@admin@127.0.0.1 to alt.usage.english on Sat Aug 8 22:24:42 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 11:01:30 +0100
    Phil <phil@anonymous.invalid> wrote:
    On 07/08/2026 06:29, Hibou wrote:
    Le 06/08/2026 a 10:20, Aidan Kehoe a ocrit :

    The real existing situation where men are unambiguously inconvenienced
    when it
    comes to toilet provision is in maternity hospitals (at least the ones
    I have
    been in.) This was a minor annoyance. Four months in obstetrics and
    gynaecology
    was the worst job of my life, but not for that reason.


    Women may have made a poor decision when they became viviparous. It's so much easier to lay an egg.

    Hibou (cousin to the old dinosaurs)


    I've occasionally been tempted to speculate on the ways that human
    society would have been different if we'd been marsupials. AI-controlled artificial pouch, anyone?

    Many many improvements could be made to humans, but god didn't let us
    evolve that way; what a mysterious fellow.
    [std stuff- vagus nerve, single point of failure heart, rubbish stomach protection, cruddy weight distribution for an upright stance - poor
    choice of excretary and reproductive tract location, lack of handy
    integrated transport bag, poor water retention, non-can-opening
    fingernails etc..]
    --
    Bah, and indeed Humbug.
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  • From Peter Moylan@peter@pmoylan.org to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 11:43:02 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 09/08/26 07:24, Kerr-Mudd, John wrote:
    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 11:01:30 +0100 Phil <phil@anonymous.invalid>
    wrote:

    I've occasionally been tempted to speculate on the ways that human
    society would have been different if we'd been marsupials.
    AI-controlled artificial pouch, anyone?

    Many many improvements could be made to humans, but god didn't let
    us evolve that way; what a mysterious fellow.

    [std stuff- vagus nerve, single point of failure heart, rubbish
    stomach protection, cruddy weight distribution for an upright stance
    - poor choice of excretary and reproductive tract location, lack of
    handy integrated transport bag, poor water retention,
    non-can-opening fingernails etc..]

    I'm currently re-reading "Before the Golden Age", a collection of 1930s
    science ficttion. I'll probably discard it after reading, because the proportion of crap is higher than Sturgeon's Law would predict, but it
    does give a good sampling of how SF developed over time.

    One of the first stories is about a "scientist" who has studied
    evolution. He claimed to have discovered the mechanism for evolution
    (cosmic rays) and a way of accelerating evolution (a machine to increase
    the intensity of cosmic rays). He wanted to know how humans would evolve
    in the future, so with the aid of this machine he evolved himself by a
    few thousand years each time, becoming a "future man".

    (They knew of the existence of cosmic rays in 1930, but didn't know much
    about them.)

    The idea about cosmic rays was a good guess. There are multiple
    mechanisms for genetic variation, and gene damage by cosmic rays is one
    of them. Nowhere near as important a mechanism as the fact that we have
    two parents, but still ... . Darwin himself observed that variations
    could develop in a species, but he didn't have a mechanism other than
    random chance.

    The rest, however, shows a complete misunderstanding of what Darwin said
    about natural selection. The idea that one can discover the direction of
    man's evolution is based on the assumption that evolution will go in a preferred direction, and possibly the assumption that there is a guiding intelligence. The use of a machine to evolve oneself ignores the fact
    that most mutations are unfavourable; going into that machine would be a
    death sentence.

    Darwin's famous paper had been published over 70 years earlier. Surely
    people would have understood it by 1930. Well, apparently not.
    --
    Peter Moylan peter@pmoylan.org http://www.pmoylan.org
    Newcastle, NSW
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  • From richard@richard@cogsci.ed.ac.uk (Richard Tobin) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 09:49:15 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    In article <1158lv8$1vq0a$1@dont-email.me>,
    Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org> wrote:

    The rest, however, shows a complete misunderstanding of what Darwin said >about natural selection. The idea that one can discover the direction of >man's evolution is based on the assumption that evolution will go in a >preferred direction, and possibly the assumption that there is a guiding >intelligence. The use of a machine to evolve oneself ignores the fact
    that most mutations are unfavourable; going into that machine would be a >death sentence.

    Darwin's famous paper had been published over 70 years earlier. Surely
    people would have understood it by 1930. Well, apparently not.

    I'm not sure this is a misunderstanding. An SF writer may pick up on
    a single piece of genuine new scientific knowledge - cosmic rays, say
    - and combine it with some other scientific-sounding nonsense purely
    to make a story, knowing perfectly well that it's not possible.

    -- Richard
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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 11:03:37 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Aidan Kehoe <kehoea@parhasard.net> wrote:

    Ar an nao|| l|i is fiche de m|! I||il, scr|!obh Liz Tuddenham:

    [...] [ 13.179 [...]There is no type of official record or document in
    the UK which provides reliable evidence of sex. For example, sex on passports and driving licences may be changed with or without a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC), and birth certificates may reflect the acquired gender of someone who has a GRC.]

    It is clear from this that they consider sex assigned at birth to be
    the only legitimate definition of "sex". A Gender Recognition
    Certificate specifies that the reassigned sex is "for all purposes" and this has not been changed, so this Guidance goes aginst the law in many cases. (The Supreme Court defined "Biological Sex" to mean the sex recorded on the original birth certificate only for certain specific purposes - and using toilets wasn't one of them. )

    [. 13.178 Where an individual confirms, in response to such a request, that they are not of the sex for which the single or separate-sex
    service or association in question is intended, they may be required to leave and thereafter be excluded from the service.]

    From this, according to the ECHR Guidance, anyone can be prevented from using the facility if their sex assigned at birth does not conform with the designateed sex of the facility (as I originally stated). So a transwomen who transitioned 30 years ago and has used the Ladies
    without the slightest problem during the whole of that time has to now
    be told she must use the Gents.

    This Guidance is illegal because it contravenes the Supreme Court definition of a "Single Sex Space" and Section 9(1) of the Gender Recognition Act 2004 but it hasn't stopped employers trying to
    enforce it on their transgender employees even before it has become
    law. 169 Members of Parliament have told the Minister that they think
    it should not be made law, but it has been pushed through without a
    vote.

    To be clear, international conventions override national law, so rulings according to international conventions are not illegal if the relevant
    nation is a signatory to the convention. The relevant country has the
    option of pulling out, or (less likely in Western Europe these days) of starting a war to force the convention to be changed should the that
    country feel the convention is not to its satisfaction.

    If the UK feels that the EHCR ruling is not to its satisfaction, it has
    the option of pulling out of the convention, war with the other
    signatories, or providing a document which is reliable evidence of sex.
    The last is likely the most sensible use of resources.

    There is confusion between the ECHR (European Court of Human Rights) and
    the EHRC (Equalities and Human Rights Commission). What you have
    described as an international convention is the ECHR (sometimes
    abbreviated to ECtHR for clarity); the recent legislation has come from
    the EHRC which is an unelected UK government quango.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 12:01:04 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Welcome back!

    Thank you.
    [...]
    There is no such "wide spectrum". There are women, men, and a
    vanishingly small number of sexual anomalies. I'm a member of a social
    group of ~50 people from a wide spectrum of ages with slightly more
    women than men, and every one of us is distinctly male or distinctly
    female.

    There are about 1.1 million people in the UK who are intersex (about
    1.7% globally), also 48,000 transmen and 48,000 transwomen. You cannot
    just add these figures because there are some people who are in both
    groups - but however you look at it, you would have to exclude an awful
    lot of data in order to prop up the binary-sex myth.

    If you define 'men' and 'women' by the ability to reproduce, there are
    21 million people in the UK over the age of 50 and at least 6 million
    children who physically cannot breed. In addition there are many more
    adults who have not produced children for social reasons.


    If you cannot tell whether someone is a man or a woman, it does not
    matter which toilet they use.

    As I noted in another post on this thread, I no longer share that view.

    How do you know if someone is a man or a woman if they do not tell you?
    I know transmen and transwomen who could not be detected in normal life
    and genetic men and women who are sometimes mistaken for trans - do you
    have some special test which you can apply?

    The chances are that you have met transgender people (depending on how
    you define it, they occur in similar numbers to the number of wheelchair
    users) and never been aware of it.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From Adam Funk@a24061@ducksburg.com to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 12:47:12 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 2026-08-07, athel.cb gmail.com wrote:


    Janet <nobody@home.com> posted:

    In article <87ik5mtsz1.fsf@enoch.nodomain.nowhere>,
    mds@bogus.nodomain.nowhere says...

    Bertel Lund Hansen <rundtosset@lundhansen.dk> writes:

    Den 05.08.2026 kl. 19.26 skrev Bertel Lund Hansen:

    When I use "unisex" bathroom, I mean a facility with a lockable door >> > >>> that can be used by anyone. The lockable door ensures the privacy.

    I don't think that that is enough for all women to feel safe when they >> > >> have a very private thing to handle (not just peeing).

    I shouldn't have written that. I have no idea how women feel in
    different situations. The article had just made me wonder if unisex
    bathrooms was a good idea.

    Over 40 years ago, before all the media/political crap about public
    bathrooms happened,

    I'm astonished you think this is media/political crap about toilets.

    What astonishes me, Janet, is how many real women are lobbying in favour of letting
    men invade women's spaces. Emily Thornberry MP is just one example out of many
    possible ones. Can you explain why this should be so?

    https://tinyurl.com/4rbdkavu

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Isla_Bryson_case

    https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2edeyzz0xmo

    All those (and other) examples are just brushed aside as one in a million exceptions.

    They are exceptions, though --- that's why they are
    newsworthy. Transgender people are disproportionately likely to be
    victims of violence and abuse and disproportionately unlikely to
    commit it.
    --
    Mankind has invested more than four million years of evolution in the
    attempt to avoid physical exertion. ... Bicycle riders would have us
    throw all this on the ash heap of history. ---P.J. O'Rourke
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  • From Bertel Lund Hansen@rundtosset@lundhansen.dk to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 15:04:59 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Den 09.08.2026 kl. 13.01 skrev Liz Tuddenham:

    If you define 'men' and 'women' by the ability to reproduce,

    ... at some period of their life. That they choose not to, doesn't
    change anything.
    --
    Bertel, Kolt, Danmark

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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 14:21:46 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Bertel Lund Hansen <rundtosset@lundhansen.dk> wrote:

    Den 09.08.2026 kl. 13.01 skrev Liz Tuddenham:

    If you define 'men' and 'women' by the ability to reproduce,

    ... at some period of their life. That they choose not to, doesn't
    change anything.

    That's about 3.5 million people who wouldn't fit the definition of 'men'
    or 'women' if it were based on reproduction.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From Adam Funk@a24061@ducksburg.com to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 17:44:39 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 2026-08-09, Peter Moylan wrote:

    On 09/08/26 07:24, Kerr-Mudd, John wrote:
    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 11:01:30 +0100 Phil <phil@anonymous.invalid>
    wrote:

    I've occasionally been tempted to speculate on the ways that human
    society would have been different if we'd been marsupials.
    AI-controlled artificial pouch, anyone?

    Many many improvements could be made to humans, but god didn't let
    us evolve that way; what a mysterious fellow.

    [std stuff- vagus nerve, single point of failure heart, rubbish
    stomach protection, cruddy weight distribution for an upright stance
    - poor choice of excretary and reproductive tract location, lack of
    handy integrated transport bag, poor water retention,
    non-can-opening fingernails etc..]

    I'm currently re-reading "Before the Golden Age", a collection of 1930s science ficttion. I'll probably discard it after reading, because the proportion of crap is higher than Sturgeon's Law would predict, but it
    does give a good sampling of how SF developed over time.

    One of the first stories is about a "scientist" who has studied
    evolution. He claimed to have discovered the mechanism for evolution
    (cosmic rays) and a way of accelerating evolution (a machine to increase
    the intensity of cosmic rays). He wanted to know how humans would evolve
    in the future, so with the aid of this machine he evolved himself by a
    few thousand years each time, becoming a "future man".

    (They knew of the existence of cosmic rays in 1930, but didn't know much about them.)

    The idea about cosmic rays was a good guess. There are multiple
    mechanisms for genetic variation, and gene damage by cosmic rays is one
    of them. Nowhere near as important a mechanism as the fact that we have
    two parents, but still ... . Darwin himself observed that variations
    could develop in a species, but he didn't have a mechanism other than
    random chance.

    The rest, however, shows a complete misunderstanding of what Darwin said about natural selection. The idea that one can discover the direction of man's evolution is based on the assumption that evolution will go in a preferred direction, and possibly the assumption that there is a guiding intelligence. The use of a machine to evolve oneself ignores the fact
    that most mutations are unfavourable; going into that machine would be a death sentence.

    Darwin's famous paper had been published over 70 years earlier. Surely
    people would have understood it by 1930. Well, apparently not.

    This reminds me of a notorious episode of _Star Trek: Voyager_.

    <https://memory-alpha.fandom.com/wiki/Threshold_(episode)>

    <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Threshold_(Star_Trek:_Voyager)>
    --
    The Nixon I remembered was absolutely humorless; I couldn't imagine
    him laughing at anything except maybe a paraplegic who wanted to vote Democratic but couldn't quite reach the lever on the voting machine.
    ---Hunter S Thompson
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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 19:49:24 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]

    Only time to address a few points as I am packing for a holiday.

    OK, I'll be briefer in this post than the last one.

    For Women Scotland did not form in a vacuum for the purpose of
    oppressing trans- people.

    They have done almost nothing else.

    They formed to defend women's rights. Any "oppression" of trans- people
    is purely incidental and unfortunate.

    Their idea of defending women's rights is entirely the oppression of transpeople and they appear to exist for that express purpose. Their
    webpage is full of anti-transgender campaigns and there is nothing else
    they claim to be doing.

    [...]

    Trans-women, who are still basically men, can also be a violent threat,
    can't they?

    No more than any moderately strong woman and in many cases less so.
    After a few months on female hormones they begin to lose body strength
    and can no longer perform as men (the hormones that were used to
    'chemically castrate' Alan Turing). If they have had 'the Operation',
    they don't have a penis. Women have more to fear from a predatory
    lesbian than a transwoman.

    In the UK and in more-civilised countries with self-declaration there
    has never been an instance of a transwoman attacking another woman in a
    toilet.


    Banning transwomen from toilets will not increase women's safety in
    any way.

    I agree with you here, too.

    A recent interesting story has been told by a transwoman who was in a
    toilet cubicle and heard another woman outside shouting violent
    transphobic abuse. She eventually realised it wasn't directed at her
    but at another woman who had short hair. She came out of the cubicle
    and helped defend the short-haired woman against the aggressor until a
    security guard arrived and evicted the trouble-maker.


    But the feelings of women in general on
    sharing them with trans-women deserve some recognition.

    At the moment, transwomen don't have to wear a pink triangle or have a
    number tattooed on their arm, so there is no reason why anyone should be
    able to identify a transwoman in a toilet if she is behaving correctly.
    When the anti-transgender hate groups realise that "We can always tell"
    is a lie, they will probably start demanding some form of identification
    - the head of the EHRC has already hinted in a Channel 4 interview that
    she would like to go down this path.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 21:14:35 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Peter Moylan <peter@pmoylan.org> wrote:

    On 09/08/26 07:24, Kerr-Mudd, John wrote:
    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 11:01:30 +0100 Phil <phil@anonymous.invalid>
    wrote:

    I've occasionally been tempted to speculate on the ways that human
    society would have been different if we'd been marsupials.
    AI-controlled artificial pouch, anyone?

    Many many improvements could be made to humans, but god didn't let
    us evolve that way; what a mysterious fellow.

    [std stuff- vagus nerve, single point of failure heart, rubbish
    stomach protection, cruddy weight distribution for an upright stance
    - poor choice of excretary and reproductive tract location, lack of
    handy integrated transport bag, poor water retention,
    non-can-opening fingernails etc..]

    I'm currently re-reading "Before the Golden Age", a collection of 1930s science ficttion. I'll probably discard it after reading, because the proportion of crap is higher than Sturgeon's Law would predict, but it
    does give a good sampling of how SF developed over time.

    One of the first stories is about a "scientist" who has studied
    evolution. He claimed to have discovered the mechanism for evolution
    (cosmic rays) and a way of accelerating evolution (a machine to increase
    the intensity of cosmic rays).

    It is a rather obvious, and a rather dumb idea.
    In the fifties/sixties there was an agricultural university
    where they did just that, using a highly radioactive Cobalt 60 source,
    with plants planted in circles around it to vary the dose.
    It was a failure, except for some initial publicity.
    Either too little or not enough gene damage,
    and sorting out the middle was way too much traditional work.
    More intelligent approaches worked much better.

    But those were the 'Atoms for peace' days.
    Hey, it is 'Atom', therefore it must be a great idea,
    or at least good for something.

    He wanted to know how humans would evolve
    in the future, so with the aid of this machine he evolved himself by a
    few thousand years each time, becoming a "future man".

    (They knew of the existence of cosmic rays in 1930, but didn't know much about them.)

    The idea about cosmic rays was a good guess. There are multiple
    mechanisms for genetic variation, and gene damage by cosmic rays is one
    of them. Nowhere near as important a mechanism as the fact that we have
    two parents, but still ... . Darwin himself observed that variations
    could develop in a species, but he didn't have a mechanism other than
    random chance.

    The rest, however, shows a complete misunderstanding of what Darwin said about natural selection.

    SF is about story telling,
    not about explaining or understanding science.
    Taking existing science way too far is a staple SF device.

    The idea that one can discover the direction of
    man's evolution is based on the assumption that evolution will go in a preferred direction, and possibly the assumption that there is a guiding intelligence. The use of a machine to evolve oneself ignores the fact
    that most mutations are unfavourable; going into that machine would be a death sentence.

    Darwin's famous paper had been published over 70 years earlier. Surely
    people would have understood it by 1930. Well, apparently not.

    Modified organism, one way or another, have always been an SF theme,
    from Well's The Island of Doctor Moreau to present day Biopunk
    and biohacking,

    Jan

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  • From nospam@nospam@de-ster.demon.nl (J. J. Lodder) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 21:14:35 2026
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    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:

    Aidan Kehoe <kehoea@parhasard.net> wrote:

    Ar an nao|a-| l|a-i is fiche de m|arCo I|a-|il, scr|arCoobh Liz Tuddenham:

    [...] [ 13.179 [...]There is no type of official record or document in the UK which provides reliable evidence of sex. For example, sex on passports and driving licences may be changed with or without a Gender Recognition Certificate (GRC), and birth certificates may reflect the acquired gender of someone who has a GRC.]

    It is clear from this that they consider sex assigned at birth to be
    the only legitimate definition of "sex". A Gender Recognition Certificate specifies that the reassigned sex is "for all purposes" and this has not been changed, so this Guidance goes aginst the law in many cases. (The Supreme Court defined "Biological Sex" to mean the sex recorded on the original birth certificate only for certain specific purposes - and using toilets wasn't one of them. )

    [. 13.178 Where an individual confirms, in response to such a request, that they are not of the sex for which the single or separate-sex service or association in question is intended, they may be required to leave and thereafter be excluded from the service.]

    From this, according to the ECHR Guidance, anyone can be prevented from using the facility if their sex assigned at birth does not conform with the designateed sex of the facility (as I originally stated). So a transwomen who transitioned 30 years ago and has used the Ladies
    without the slightest problem during the whole of that time has to now be told she must use the Gents.

    This Guidance is illegal because it contravenes the Supreme Court definition of a "Single Sex Space" and Section 9(1) of the Gender Recognition Act 2004 but it hasn't stopped employers trying to
    enforce it on their transgender employees even before it has become
    law. 169 Members of Parliament have told the Minister that they think it should not be made law, but it has been pushed through without a vote.

    To be clear, international conventions override national law, so rulings according to international conventions are not illegal if the relevant nation is a signatory to the convention. The relevant country has the option of pulling out, or (less likely in Western Europe these days) of starting a war to force the convention to be changed should the that country feel the convention is not to its satisfaction.

    If the UK feels that the EHCR ruling is not to its satisfaction, it has
    the option of pulling out of the convention, war with the other signatories, or providing a document which is reliable evidence of sex.
    The last is likely the most sensible use of resources.

    There is confusion between the ECHR (European Court of Human Rights) and
    the EHRC (Equalities and Human Rights Commission). What you have
    described as an international convention is the ECHR (sometimes
    abbreviated to ECtHR for clarity); the recent legislation has come from
    the EHRC which is an unelected UK government quango.

    There is further confusion
    between
    ECHR, the European Convention on Human Rights,
    (a treaty, 1950, to which Britain is a party)
    and
    ECHR, the European Court of Human Rights,
    (the court that goes with it, somtimes abbreviated to ECtHR,
    like you said)

    There may be conflicts between what the home-grown British EHRC
    is decreeing, and what Britain is treaty partner to under the ECHR,
    but that will take a long time to find out,

    Jan
    --
    <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_Convention_on_Human_Rights> <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/European_Court_of_Human_Rights> <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equality_and_Human_Rights_Commission>



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  • From Sam Plusnet@not@home.com to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 21:06:19 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 08/08/2026 22:12, Kerr-Mudd, John wrote:
    On Sat, 8 Aug 2026 07:08:56 +0100
    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 06/08/2026 |a 09:51, J. J. Lodder a |-crit :
    Peter Moylan wrote:

    One solution that really does cut cleaning bills, I'm told, is to paint >>>> a picture of a fly on each urinal. I first met this at Schiphol airport, >>>> but the idea has since spread to other places.

    Another Dutch design has red woman's lips (or Mick Jagger's)
    painted on the rim.
    Rejected by the Americans of course as grossly indecent.
    The design has been much copied.


    Hmm. Kiss my arse!

    The rim is the wrong place, not a good aiming point. In any bowl there
    should be a sweet spot-| where the stream will bounce off in safe
    directions. That's the place to put the painted fly.

    -|Term under review.

    For me it is a point at about 20 degrees off base (my preference left) , where splashback is minimal - the stream mostly redirected inward and
    down toward the central base exit.

    Gosh isn't this an exciting topic to discuss to see if international preferences differ?!

    /~~~~~\
    | |
    \ /
    \x /
    \./


    x marks the spot


    Very dependent on urinal design I imagine.
    (Being 'of a certain age', I don't use them very often.)
    --
    Sam Plusnet
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  • From Alan Mackenzie@acm@muc.de to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 20:08:01 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]

    Only time to address a few points as I am packing for a holiday.

    OK, I'll be briefer in this post than the last one.

    For Women Scotland did not form in a vacuum for the purpose of oppressing trans- people.

    They have done almost nothing else.

    They formed to defend women's rights. Any "oppression" of trans- people
    is purely incidental and unfortunate.

    Their idea of defending women's rights is entirely the oppression of transpeople and they appear to exist for that express purpose.

    I suggest that they're not excessively concerned with the rights of transpeople, except in as much as they collide with the rights of women.
    The two sets of rights (or "rights") frequently do collide.

    Have a look at https://www.stonewall.org.uk sometime. The language and
    tone of that site reminds me of some of the exhibits at a certain
    historical museum here in Nuremberg. There is no nuance in its message.
    Its search engine turns up no matches for "women's rights" or even
    "For Women Scotland", not even mentioning them when introducing "the
    Supreme Court Judgment". They talk about how so many transgender people
    have suffered "hate crime" without giving any idea what they mean by
    "hate crime", and certainly no links to other sites where people could
    check them up. Stonewall just tells you what you must think. It does
    not encourage, or even permit, discussion, debate, or analysis.

    Stonewall states explicitly that it wants "equal rights for everybody",
    totally oblivious to the fact that different people's rights frequently collide, and in a civilised society these collisions are regulated as
    fairly as possible. In practice, it advocates strongly for the rights of trans-people, and doesn't give a damn about any other group's rights, not
    even lesbian and gay rights any more.

    Their [For Women Scotland] webpage is full of anti-transgender
    campaigns and there is nothing else they claim to be doing.

    I've just been and had another look at https://forwomen.scot. I'm
    wondering whether we're talking about the same webpage.

    [...]

    Trans-women, who are still basically men, can also be a violent threat, can't they?

    No more than any moderately strong woman and in many cases less so.
    After a few months on female hormones they begin to lose body strength
    and can no longer perform as men (the hormones that were used to
    'chemically castrate' Alan Turing). If they have had 'the Operation',
    they don't have a penis. Women have more to fear from a predatory
    lesbian than a transwoman.

    At the founding of For Women Scotland, the Scottish Government had
    just made/were about to make a law that anybody could change their sex by submitting a piece of paper to a registry office, with or without
    opposite sex hormones or gender reassignment surgery or whatever.

    After that it would be open season for men in the ladies' and all other
    formely female-only spaces. This law was vetoed by the British
    Government (thankfully).

    In the UK and in more-civilised countries with self-declaration there
    has never been an instance of a transwoman attacking another woman in a toilet.

    I think that's a bold and slightly irrelevant thing to say. More to the
    point is whether a biological man, whether or not a transwoman, has ever attacked a woman in the women's toilets, and whether the chances of that
    would increase with free access of transwomen and "transwomen" to the
    ladies'. That was one of the scenarios that FWS was formed to fight
    against.

    Banning transwomen from toilets will not increase women's safety in
    any way.

    I agree with you here, too.

    A recent interesting story has been told by a transwoman who was in a
    toilet cubicle and heard another woman outside shouting violent
    transphobic abuse. She eventually realised it wasn't directed at her
    but at another woman who had short hair. She came out of the cubicle
    and helped defend the short-haired woman against the aggressor until a security guard arrived and evicted the trouble-maker.

    Hopefully such aggression will be a passing fad, once the new laws/regulations/codes of practice have had time to bed in.

    But the feelings of women in general on sharing them with trans-women deserve some recognition.

    At the moment, transwomen don't have to wear a pink triangle or have a
    number tattooed on their arm, so there is no reason why anyone should be
    able to identify a transwoman in a toilet if she is behaving correctly.

    Apart from being 6' 2" tall with broad shoulders, like the "woman" my
    sister encountered emerging from the ladies' that I described before.

    When the anti-transgender hate groups realise that "We can always tell"
    is a lie, they will probably start demanding some form of identification
    - the head of the EHRC has already hinted in a Channel 4 interview that
    she would like to go down this path.

    Why do you continue using "anti-transgender hate groups" to characterise
    groups like FWS? They don't call Stonewall or people with your views "misogynists", though they have at least equal grounds for doing so.

    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    --
    Alan Mackenzie (Nuremberg, Germany).

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  • From Silvano@Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 22:53:18 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Liz Tuddenham hat am 09.08.2026 um 13:01 geschrieben:

    If you define 'men' and 'women' by the ability to reproduce, there are
    21 million people in the UK over the age of 50

    May I remind you that men over the age of 50 can still become fathers? I
    don't want to and I have a sure-fire method not to - sex only with a
    woman who had her menopause many years ago.


    and at least 6 million
    children who physically cannot breed. In addition there are many more
    adults who have not produced children for social reasons.

    And for other reasons too. My wife's brother and his wife had no
    children, although they wanted them. She was the boss in a hospital's
    lab and took the relevant tests. Either she couldn't or he couldn't (or
    both). She never revealed the results to anyone, apart from her husband
    (I guess), and both are dead.
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  • From Silvano@Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 23:27:21 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Alan Mackenzie hat am 09.08.2026 um 22:08 geschrieben:
    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    At the moment, transwomen don't have to wear a pink triangle or have a
    number tattooed on their arm, so there is no reason why anyone should be
    able to identify a transwoman in a toilet if she is behaving correctly.

    Apart from being 6' 2" tall with broad shoulders, like the "woman" my
    sister encountered emerging from the ladies' that I described before.


    WTF? Many years ago I shared a big flat with three people (one room
    each, kitchen and bathroom shared) and one of them was a woman, 192 cm
    tall, i. e. over 6' 2", if I'm not wrong. I really can't remember how
    broad her shoulders were and I never wanted to look at her genitals, but
    I'm sure her boyfriend from Congo would have been upset if he had seen something unusual.

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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Sun Aug 9 22:55:29 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]

    Only time to address a few points as I am packing for a holiday.

    OK, I'll be briefer in this post than the last one.

    For Women Scotland did not form in a vacuum for the purpose of oppressing trans- people.

    They have done almost nothing else.

    They formed to defend women's rights. Any "oppression" of trans- people is purely incidental and unfortunate.

    Their idea of defending women's rights is entirely the oppression of transpeople and they appear to exist for that express purpose.

    I suggest that they're not excessively concerned with the rights of transpeople, except in as much as they collide with the rights of women.
    The two sets of rights (or "rights") frequently do collide.

    All types of women have a right to safety and privacy, there is no clash
    except in very specialised circumstances. They are using the natural
    fears of women as a stick to beat trans women, there has never been a
    case of a transwoman raping any woman in a toilet. This is a totally fabricated 'problem' that does not exist in reality.

    Have a look at https://www.stonewall.org.uk sometime.
    {...}
    In practice, it advocates strongly for the rights of
    trans-people, and doesn't give a damn about any other group's rights, not even lesbian and gay rights any more.

    Where on earth have you seen that? Stonewall has backed away from trans rights.


    [...]
    At the founding of For Women Scotland, the Scottish Government had
    just made/were about to make a law that anybody could change their sex by submitting a piece of paper to a registry office, with or without
    opposite sex hormones or gender reassignment surgery or whatever.

    After that it would be open season for men in the ladies' and all other formely female-only spaces. This law was vetoed by the British
    Government (thankfully).

    That is the sort of rubbish put about by FWS. There is self-declaration
    in over a dozen countries and there has never been an incident like
    that. Why on earth would a potential rapist feel the need to pose as a
    woman in order to walk into a women's space and cause trouble when he
    could just do it anyway.

    As we have previously agreed, banning transwomen from toilets will not
    make the slightest difference to women's safety. The FWS judgement
    weasn't about toilets and the judge was very clear that this judgement
    was not to be used in the way it now is.


    In the UK and in more-civilised countries with self-declaration there
    has never been an instance of a transwoman attacking another woman in a toilet.

    I think that's a bold and slightly irrelevant thing to say. More to the point is whether a biological man, whether or not a transwoman, has ever attacked a woman in the women's toilets, and whether the chances of that would increase with free access of transwomen and "transwomen" to the ladies'. That was one of the scenarios that FWS was formed to fight
    against.

    They have had free access for decades and there has never been a
    problem. There will be problems from now on and they will affect far
    more cis-women than trans-women.

    [...]
    A recent interesting story has been told by a transwoman who was in a toilet cubicle and heard another woman outside shouting violent
    transphobic abuse. She eventually realised it wasn't directed at her
    but at another woman who had short hair. She came out of the cubicle
    and helped defend the short-haired woman against the aggressor until a security guard arrived and evicted the trouble-maker.

    Hopefully such aggression will be a passing fad, once the new laws/regulations/codes of practice have had time to bed in.

    Quite the contrary if American experiece is anything to go by. The
    haters will now feel emboldened to accost any woman whose appearance
    doesn't fit their stereotype and the law now backs them up (the latest
    Guidance actually tells them they should do it). How is this supporting women's rights?


    But the feelings of women in general on sharing them with trans-women deserve some recognition.

    At the moment, transwomen don't have to wear a pink triangle or have a number tattooed on their arm, so there is no reason why anyone should be able to identify a transwoman in a toilet if she is behaving correctly.

    Apart from being 6' 2" tall with broad shoulders, like the "woman" my
    sister encountered emerging from the ladies' that I described before.

    And was she a transwoman or just a 6'2" tall woman with broad shoulders
    and possibly a hormanal abnormality? How would you know and what
    business of anyones would it be to ask - as long as she was doing
    nothing wrong?


    When the anti-transgender hate groups realise that "We can always tell"
    is a lie, they will probably start demanding some form of identification
    - the head of the EHRC has already hinted in a Channel 4 interview that
    she would like to go down this path.

    Why do you continue using "anti-transgender hate groups" to characterise groups like FWS?

    Havvbe you seen their behaviour and comments - if that isn't hate, I
    don't know what is.

    They don't call Stonewall or people with your views
    "misogynists", though they have at least equal grounds for doing so.

    I'm not a mysogynist and neither are any of the transwomen I know, they
    want all women to be treated properly and not split up into categories
    and discriminated against. (Neither do they want to be discriminated
    *for* because all forms of discrimination are wrong and so-called
    'focussed positive' discrimination is just widespread negative
    discrimination under another name - which leads to resentment.)
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 06:59:38 2026
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    Le 08/08/2026 |a 20:21, Liz Tuddenham a |-crit :

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs [...]


    Nonsense! They encapsulate an almost universal division that is rooted
    in nature and is at the heart of how our species reproduces itself.

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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 09:38:51 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 08/08/2026 |a 20:21, Liz Tuddenham a |-crit :

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs [...]


    Nonsense! They encapsulate an almost universal division that is rooted
    in nature and is at the heart of how our species reproduces itself.

    As we don't reproduce in public toilets (well, not very often), why
    apply that division in places where it isn't needed, isn't applicable
    and isn't enforceable? Most of our lives are not spent reproducing; the concept of 'men' and 'women' is irelevant most of the time.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From Steve Hayes@hayesstw@telkomsa.net to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 10:47:34 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On Mon, 10 Aug 2026 06:59:38 +0100, Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 08/08/2026 |a 20:21, Liz Tuddenham a |-crit :

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs [...]


    Nonsense! They encapsulate an almost universal division that is rooted
    in nature and is at the heart of how our species reproduces itself.

    Someone pointed out that Darwin showed that moneys made men of
    themselves, as opposed to the Bible, which showed that men made
    monkeys of themselves.

    Whatever you think of that, the fact that the meaning of "men" has
    changed since the 1950s and no longer distinguishes men from monkeys,
    but only from women, shows that it is indeed an artificial construct.

    "Man" used to mean the same as Russian "chelovek", but does no longer.
    We no longer have an English word for that concept.
    --
    Steve Hayes from Tshwane, South Africa
    Web: http://www.khanya.org.za/stevesig.htm
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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 10:24:24 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Le 10/08/2026 |a 09:38, Liz Tuddenham a |-crit :
    Hibou wrote:
    Le 08/08/2026 |a-a 20:21, Liz Tuddenham a |a--crit :

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are
    artificial constructs [...]

    Nonsense! They encapsulate an almost universal division that is rooted
    in nature and is at the heart of how our species reproduces itself.

    As we don't reproduce in public toilets (well, not very often), why
    apply that division in places where it isn't needed, isn't applicable
    and isn't enforceable? Most of our lives are not spent reproducing; the concept of 'men' and 'women' is irelevant most of the time.


    Well, my own feeling (others must speak for themselves) is that sex, the distinction between men and women, is omnipresent in human relations, in
    more or less subtle ways, even when intercourse is not on the cards
    (which is the great majority of the time). As evidence for this, I could adduce grammatical gender, which so often distinguishes the masculine
    from the feminine (more often than, say, animate from inanimate).

    <https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_languages_by_type_of_grammatical_genders>

    We have male and female as mental categories, and different attitudes to
    our own and the opposite sexes. Transgender people cut across this and
    elicit an 'conflicting data; unable to compute' reaction.

    When it comes to loos, the criterion is not so much whether one can
    stand up to pee or not, whether one wipes one's bum from front to back
    or vice versa; it's about how people feel about performing these
    intimate acts in the presence of the opposite sex. If you want to change
    how the bulk of people feel, you have a job-| on your hands.

    -|Note for any Scots who read this: that's a job on your hands, not a jobbie.

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  • From richard@richard@cogsci.ed.ac.uk (Richard Tobin) to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 11:02:16 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    In article <ndtjm8Ftk6aU3@mid.individual.net>,
    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Well, my own feeling (others must speak for themselves) is that sex, the >distinction between men and women, is omnipresent in human relations,

    That is quite contrary to my experience. For the vast majority of
    people I interact with, their sex is completely irrelevant to our
    relationship.

    -- Richard
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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 12:06:07 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    [...]
    When it comes to loos, the criterion is not so much whether one can
    stand up to pee or not, whether one wipes one's bum from front to back
    or vice versa; it's about how people feel about performing these
    intimate acts in the presence of the opposite sex.

    How often have you shared a cubicle with someone else?
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 13:20:41 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Le 10/08/2026 |a 12:06, Liz Tuddenham a |-crit :
    Hibou wrote:

    [...]
    When it comes to loos, the criterion is not so much whether one can
    stand up to pee or not, whether one wipes one's bum from front to back
    or vice versa; it's about how people feel about performing these
    intimate acts in the presence of the opposite sex.

    How often have you shared a cubicle with someone else?


    A few times; I haven't counted them. (Mme Hibou and I have occasionally
    gone into the larger kind of public lockable cludgie together.)

    I foresaw your objection. I think the usual cubicle is not enough to
    remove the feeling of proximity - air gaps top and bottom, first-rate transmission of sound - every sound.

    It's been some time since I've seen the kind of French loo in which
    everyone, men and women, had to walk past the urinals to reach the
    cubicles. That was quite proximate.

    Times move onrCa
    <https://pic.infini.fr/tiKANCWT/Uyzl6f32.jpg> (link valid 15 days)

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  • From Alan Mackenzie@acm@muc.de to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 13:25:25 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [ .... ]

    For Women Scotland did not form in a vacuum for the purpose of oppressing trans- people.

    They have done almost nothing else.

    They formed to defend women's rights. Any "oppression" of trans- people is purely incidental and unfortunate.

    Their idea of defending women's rights is entirely the oppression of transpeople and they appear to exist for that express purpose.

    I suggest that they're not excessively concerned with the rights of transpeople, except in as much as they collide with the rights of women. The two sets of rights (or "rights") frequently do collide.

    All types of women have a right to safety and privacy, there is no clash except in very specialised circumstances.

    Women need privacy from men (and vice versa), hence have single-sex
    spaces. Transwomen are men (in British law and any objective scientific
    view). Transwomen's demands to have access to female spaces clash very
    much with women's needs for these exclusive spaces. This clash is what
    we've been arguing about for several posts, and is happening throughout
    much of the world in public opinion and discussion and the courts.

    They [For Women Scotland] are using the natural fears of women as a
    stick to beat trans women, ....

    Again, they're not "beating trans women"; they're defending women's
    rights and spaces, which have been hard won over many decades, against encroachment by men.

    .... there has never been a case of a transwoman raping any woman in a toilet. This is a totally fabricated 'problem' that does not exist in reality.

    I don't see how you can know this, given that most rapes go unreported.

    Have a look at https://www.stonewall.org.uk sometime.
    {...}
    In practice, it advocates strongly for the rights of
    trans-people, and doesn't give a damn about any other group's rights, not even lesbian and gay rights any more.

    Where on earth have you seen that? Stonewall has backed away from trans rights.

    On https://www.stonewall.org.uk, and quite a few blogs and online
    newspaper articles. What have you seen that brings you to believe that Stonewall has "backed away" from trans rights? I think you are mistaken,
    here.

    [ .... ]

    In the UK and in more-civilised countries with self-declaration there
    has never been an instance of a transwoman attacking another woman in a toilet.

    I think that's a bold and slightly irrelevant thing to say. More to the point is whether a biological man, whether or not a transwoman, has ever attacked a woman in the women's toilets, and whether the chances of that would increase with free access of transwomen and "transwomen" to the ladies'. That was one of the scenarios that FWS was formed to fight against.

    They have had free access for decades and there has never been a
    problem. There will be problems from now on and they will affect far
    more cis-women than trans-women.

    Men have never had free access to women's toilets; there's always been a
    strong social pressure against any such access. But you're advocating
    for transwomen (and hence men in general) to have such access now.

    [ .... ]

    But the feelings of women in general on sharing them with trans-women deserve some recognition.

    At the moment, transwomen don't have to wear a pink triangle or have a number tattooed on their arm, so there is no reason why anyone should be able to identify a transwoman in a toilet if she is behaving correctly.

    Apart from being 6' 2" tall with broad shoulders, like the "woman" my sister encountered emerging from the ladies' that I described before.

    And was she a transwoman or just a 6'2" tall woman with broad shoulders
    and possibly a hormanal abnormality?

    I wasn't there, but I suspect the person was just a man who had blundered
    into the ladies' by mistake, and on realising his mistake was bound for
    the gents'.

    How would you know and what business of anyones would it be to ask - as
    long as she was doing nothing wrong?

    These things are regulated by social convention, and up till now it has
    been rare indeed that anybody has needed to ask. It would be good if
    that could continue.

    When the anti-transgender hate groups realise that "We can always
    tell" is a lie, they will probably start demanding some form of identification - the head of the EHRC has already hinted in a
    Channel 4 interview that she would like to go down this path.

    Why do you continue using "anti-transgender hate groups" to characterise groups like FWS?

    Havvbe you seen their behaviour and comments - if that isn't hate, I
    don't know what is.

    Then let me tell you. Hate is spitting in people's faces, beating them
    up, murdering them, setting their accomodation on fire (in the case of refugees), inciting such violence, and things like that. For Women
    Scotland have not been doing things like that; instead they've persuaded
    people by civilised arguments that they're right (in as much as they are right).

    They don't call Stonewall or people with your views "misogynists",
    though they have at least equal grounds for doing so.

    I'm not a mysogynist and neither are any of the transwomen I know, they
    want all women to be treated properly and not split up into categories
    and discriminated against.

    Such categorisation is normal and good in society. We do not treat girls
    the same way as women, we treat pregnant women differently again.
    Transwomen are _not_ the same as women, so it is not reasonable that they should expect identical treatment. Precisely how different their
    treatment should be is still a subject of active debate (such as we're
    now having).

    Saying that transwomen are discriminated against is an opinion rather
    than an objective fact. Gender reassignment is a protected
    characteristic of the Equalities Act.

    (Neither do they want to be discriminated *for* because all forms of discrimination are wrong and so-called 'focussed positive'
    discrimination is just widespread negative discrimination under another
    name - which leads to resentment.)

    As I said above, discrimination is normal and needed in a civilised
    society. Trans-people not getting everything they want is a different
    thing from them being discriminated against.

    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    --
    Alan Mackenzie (Nuremberg, Germany).

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  • From Steve Hayes@hayesstw@telkomsa.net to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 16:45:38 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On Mon, 10 Aug 2026 11:02:16 -0000 (UTC), richard@cogsci.ed.ac.uk
    (Richard Tobin) wrote:

    In article <ndtjm8Ftk6aU3@mid.individual.net>,
    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Well, my own feeling (others must speak for themselves) is that sex, the >>distinction between men and women, is omnipresent in human relations,

    That is quite contrary to my experience. For the vast majority of
    people I interact with, their sex is completely irrelevant to our >relationship.

    And I agree with both of you.

    Like Hibou, I am aware of the sex of most of the people I interact
    with, but like you, I find that in most cases their sex is irrelevant
    to our relationship.
    --
    Steve Hayes from Tshwane, South Africa
    Web: http://www.khanya.org.za/stevesig.htm
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  • From Bertel Lund Hansen@rundtosset@lundhansen.dk to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 17:14:04 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Den 10.08.2026 kl. 16.45 skrev Steve Hayes:

    Well, my own feeling (others must speak for themselves) is that sex, the >>> distinction between men and women, is omnipresent in human relations,

    That is quite contrary to my experience. For the vast majority of
    people I interact with, their sex is completely irrelevant to our
    relationship.

    And I agree with both of you.

    Like Hibou, I am aware of the sex of most of the people I interact
    with, but like you, I find that in most cases their sex is irrelevant
    to our relationship.

    I don't think that anyone can interact with another person without being
    aware of their sex at some level.
    --
    Bertel, Kolt, Danmark

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  • From liz@liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 17:28:03 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]
    Women need privacy from men (and vice versa), hence have single-sex
    spaces. Transwomen are men (in British law and any objective scientific view).

    The British law was drawn up by people whose scientific knowledge is on
    a par with a four-year-old.

    You appear to have no scientific or even personal knowledge of
    transpeople and I can see it is pointless trying to educate you as you
    are too entrenched in the propaganda put out by the hate groups. This
    is not meant as an insult but as an explanation of why I no longer wish
    to waste my time going around in circles dealing with the same nonsense
    again and again.
    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    (Remove the ".invalid"s and add ".co.uk" to reply)
    www.poppyrecords.co.uk
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  • From athel.cb@gmail.com@user12588@newsgrouper.org.invalid to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 16:34:02 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english


    liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) posted:

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]
    Women need privacy from men (and vice versa), hence have single-sex
    spaces. Transwomen are men (in British law and any objective scientific view).

    The British law was drawn up by people whose scientific knowledge is on
    a par with a four-year-old.

    You appear to have no scientific or even personal knowledge of
    transpeople and I can see it is pointless trying to educate you as you
    are too entrenched in the propaganda put out by the hate groups. This
    is not meant as an insult but as an explanation of why I no longer wish
    to waste my time going around in circles dealing with the same nonsense
    again and again.

    Unfortunately I don't get the impression that the trans activists make any effort to deal with what they claim to be nonsense, but prefer to insist that we accept their opinions as god-given truths, so, for example, dead-naming someone is an offence on the same level as raping a woman forced to share a prison cell with a trans "woman" convicted of sex crimes.

    Yesterday I edited a
    --
    athel

    Living in Marseilles for 39 years; mainly in England before that,
    with long periods in Singapore, California, Chile and Canada
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  • From athel.cb@gmail.com@user12588@newsgrouper.org.invalid to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 17:00:02 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english


    liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid (Liz Tuddenham) posted:

    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]
    Women need privacy from men (and vice versa), hence have single-sex
    spaces. Transwomen are men (in British law and any objective scientific view).

    The British law was drawn up by people whose scientific knowledge is on
    a par with a four-year-old.

    You appear to have no scientific or even personal knowledge of
    transpeople and I can see it is pointless trying to educate you as you
    are too entrenched in the propaganda put out by the hate groups. This
    is not meant as an insult but as an explanation of why I no longer wish
    to waste my time going around in circles dealing with the same nonsense
    again and again.

    Unfortunately I don't get the impression that the trans activists make any effort to deal with what they claim to be nonsense, but prefer to insist that everyone accept their opinions as god-given truths, so, for example, dead-naming
    someone is an offence on the same level as raping a woman forced to share a prison cell with a trans "woman" in prison for sex crimes.

    Yesterday I edited a Wikipedia article about a distinguished biologist who transitioned around the turn of the century. Before that she had published important well-cited work under her birth name (1350 citations for one paper -- that's a lot -- but I haven't checked them all). It seemed to me (and still does) that she would not want her earlier work to be completely forgotten because no one could find it or associate it with her, so I added her birth name in the space provided. Within a few hours someone accused me of dead-naming
    and cancelled the addition. The editor in question describes themself as agender, though the photo on their user page looks unambiguously male to me.
    --
    athel

    Living in Marseilles for 39 years; mainly in England before that,
    with long periods in Singapore, California, Chile and Canada
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  • From Alan Mackenzie@acm@muc.de to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 17:50:43 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Liz Tuddenham <liz@poppyrecords.invalid.invalid> wrote:
    Alan Mackenzie <acm@muc.de> wrote:

    [...]
    Women need privacy from men (and vice versa), hence have single-sex
    spaces. Transwomen are men (in British law and any objective scientific view).

    The British law was drawn up by people whose scientific knowledge is on
    a par with a four-year-old.

    A four-year-old knows there are two sexes, and that they are different
    from eachother. British law agrees with this.

    You appear to have no scientific or even personal knowledge of
    transpeople ....

    I don't, no. But I have a great deal of acquaintanceship with women.
    I appreciate that their lot has improved markedly over the decades (a
    female prime minister was unthinkable in the 1960s), and that this
    improvement is under threat from the viewpoint you espouse and are
    trying to impose on others.

    .... and I can see it is pointless trying to educate you as you are
    too entrenched in the propaganda put out by the hate groups.

    "... the propaganda put out by the hate groups" is not the terminology
    of an intelligent thinking person. The word "hate" is, in general,
    grossly over-used to dismiss points of view opposed by the
    writer/speaker.

    This is not meant as an insult but as an explanation of why I no
    longer wish to waste my time going around in circles dealing with the
    same nonsense again and again.

    I'm disappointed that you've failed entirely to deal with several points
    I've made. I was hoping to learn more from you.

    I think the best summing up of our differences would be to say that in
    the conflict between women's rights and trans rights I hold that women's
    rights should prevail, you hold the opposite view.

    --
    ~ Liz Tuddenham ~
    --
    Alan Mackenzie (Nuremberg, Germany).

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  • From Silvano@Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 20:15:06 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    athel.cb@gmail.com hat am 10.08.2026 um 19:00 geschrieben:
    Yesterday I edited a Wikipedia article about a distinguished biologist who transitioned around the turn of the century. Before that she had published important well-cited work under her birth name (1350 citations for one paper --
    that's a lot -- but I haven't checked them all). It seemed to me (and still does) that she would not want her earlier work to be completely forgotten because no one could find it or associate it with her, so I added her birth name in the space provided.


    If I understand it right and that biologist transitioned to a man, I
    have a linguistic objection to using she/her in any reference after the transition.

    Did you not have a chance to ask that biologist if and how they want to associate their earlier work with their present name?
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  • From athel.cb@gmail.com@user12588@newsgrouper.org.invalid to alt.usage.english on Mon Aug 10 20:08:16 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english


    Silvano <Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it> posted:

    athel.cb@gmail.com hat am 10.08.2026 um 19:00 geschrieben:
    Yesterday I edited a Wikipedia article about a distinguished biologist who transitioned around the turn of the century. Before that she had published important well-cited work under her birth name (1350 citations for one paper --
    that's a lot -- but I haven't checked them all). It seemed to me (and still does) that she would not want her earlier work to be completely forgotten because no one could find it or associate it with her, so I added her birth name in the space provided.


    If I understand it right and that biologist transitioned to a man, I
    have a linguistic objection to using she/her in any reference after the transition.

    No, you don't understand it right. It was a man who transitioned to a woman. I call her she because that's what she wants to be called. Do you find that objectionable? I'm puzzled as to why you leapt to the wrong conclusion. Did it fit better with the myth you wanted to create about my character? Would you have
    been happier if I had written "Before that he had published important well-cited
    work under his birth name", thereby risking Liz's wrath?

    Did you not have a chance to ask that biologist if and how they want to associate their earlier work with their present name?

    As she doesn't keep it a secret herself it didn't occur to me that she would want
    others to keep it secret.
    --
    athel

    Living in Marseilles for 39 years; mainly in England before that,
    with long periods in Singapore, California, Chile and Canada
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  • From Peter Moylan@peter@pmoylan.org to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 09:52:59 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 10/08/26 22:20, Hibou wrote:

    Times move onrCa <https://pic.infini.fr/tiKANCWT/Uyzl6f32.jpg> (link
    valid 15 days)

    Does that mean that there is some sort of filter behind the urinals to
    separate the different flavours?

    I'd be wary of buying wine from that region.
    --
    Peter Moylan peter@pmoylan.org http://www.pmoylan.org
    Newcastle, NSW
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  • From Peter Moylan@peter@pmoylan.org to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 10:32:47 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    On 10/08/26 23:25, Alan Mackenzie wrote:

    As I said above, discrimination is normal and needed in a civilised
    society. Trans-people not getting everything they want is a
    different thing from them being discriminated against.

    Trans people are getting bad publicity because of the offensively
    shrill approach of some of their advocates. It would be in their
    interest to shut those people up.

    'My pronouns are "me, me, me".'
    --
    Peter Moylan peter@pmoylan.org http://www.pmoylan.org
    Newcastle, NSW
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  • From Hibou@vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 06:52:05 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Le 10/08/2026 |a 16:14, Bertel Lund Hansen a |-crit :
    Den 10.08.2026 kl. 16.45 skrev Steve Hayes:
    [...]
    Well, my own feeling (others must speak for themselves) is that sex,
    the
    distinction between men and women, is omnipresent in human relations,

    That is quite contrary to my experience.-a For the vast majority of
    people I interact with, their sex is completely irrelevant to our
    relationship.

    And I agree with both of you.

    Like Hibou, I am aware of the sex of most of the people I interact
    with, but like you, I find that in most cases their sex is irrelevant
    to our relationship.

    I don't think that anyone can interact with another person without being aware of their sex at some level.


    Yes, I didn't mean it's overt, though it may be, but present as an undercurrent. A record of the words spoken may reveal nothing;
    recordings might show differences in tone of voice, expressions
    (smilesrCa), and eye movements.

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  • From Silvano@Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 09:13:14 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    athel.cb@gmail.com hat am 10.08.2026 um 22:08 geschrieben:

    Silvano <Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it> posted:

    athel.cb@gmail.com hat am 10.08.2026 um 19:00 geschrieben:
    Yesterday I edited a Wikipedia article about a distinguished biologist who >>> transitioned around the turn of the century. Before that she had published >>> important well-cited work under her birth name (1350 citations for one paper --
    that's a lot -- but I haven't checked them all). It seemed to me (and still >>> does) that she would not want her earlier work to be completely forgotten >>> because no one could find it or associate it with her, so I added her birth >>> name in the space provided.


    If I understand it right and that biologist transitioned to a man, I
    have a linguistic objection to using she/her in any reference after the
    transition.

    No, you don't understand it right. It was a man who transitioned to a woman.

    I see.


    I call her she because that's what she wants to be called. Do you find that objectionable?

    Quite the opposite. It's the right thing to do.


    I'm puzzled as to why you leapt to the wrong conclusion.

    Because you used she/her about the publications before their transition,
    I guess. The usage of pronouns with reference to the time before and
    after a transition is not easy. Probably, I should read what activists
    write about this problem and learn more about it.


    Did it fit better with the myth you wanted to create about my character?

    Sorry, but I'm puzzled as to why you think that I want to create a myth
    about your character.


    Would you have
    been happier if I had written "Before that he had published important well-cited
    work under his birth name", thereby risking Liz's wrath?

    No, of course not. I'd consistently use they/them, but I can see the
    problem if Liz now wants she/her. If I got a chance, I'd ask her which
    pronoun she prefers with reference to the time and the publications
    before transition, especially if there's also a reference to the
    previous name. Even better, if possible, I'd ask her to review my text
    and approve it or change it.


    Did you not have a chance to ask that biologist if and how they want to
    associate their earlier work with their present name?

    As she doesn't keep it a secret herself it didn't occur to me that she would want
    others to keep it secret.

    This is an important piece of information I didn't know.
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  • From Bertel Lund Hansen@rundtosset@lundhansen.dk to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 09:44:59 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Den 11.08.2026 kl. 09.13 skrev Silvano:

    No, of course not. I'd consistently use they/them, but I can see the
    problem if Liz now wants she/her. If I got a chance, I'd ask her which pronoun she prefers with reference to the time and the publications
    before transition, especially if there's also a reference to the
    previous name. Even better, if possible, I'd ask her to review my text
    and approve it or change it.

    Asking other people's advice is commendable, but I do not let other
    people decide what I write.
    --
    Bertel, Kolt, Danmark

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  • From Aidan Kehoe@kehoea@parhasard.net to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 09:00:25 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english


    Ar an deichi|| l|i de m|! L||nasa, scr|!obh Liz Tuddenham:

    Hibou <vpaereru-unmonitored@yahoo.com.invalid> wrote:

    Le 08/08/2026 |a-a 20:21, Liz Tuddenham a |a--crit :

    As discussed in other threads, the terms "Men " and "Women" are artificial constructs [...]

    Nonsense! They encapsulate an almost universal division that is rooted
    in nature and is at the heart of how our species reproduces itself.

    As we don't reproduce in public toilets (well, not very often), why
    apply that division in places where it isn't needed, isn't applicable
    and isn't enforceable? Most of our lives are not spent reproducing; the concept of 'men' and 'women' is irelevant most of the time.

    In our working years a huge proportion of the population is raising children. Men and women make, on average, different decisions about prioritising paid work versus prioritising family. As one example, if you were to get the stats from your local GP out-of-hours, I am confident that the majority of the shifts will be covered by male GPs, despite the specialty being majority female. Ignore this and you get a situation like https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12442227/ , where workforce planning failed to acknowledge that if you train more female GPs you get proportionally fewer patients seen over those GPsrCO careers.

    Japan used to intentionally address exactly the same dynamic by discriminating against women in medical school admissions. (That is, women needed higher exam scores than men did to get in.) This is no longer the case, but I mention it to underline that this is a cross-cultural phenomenon.

    Another example of the dynamic is also evident and unambiguously demonstrated in Uber drivers: https://web.stanford.edu/~diamondr/UberPayGap.pdf . ThererCOs no
    reason to believe this doesnrCOt hold across other sectors.

    Most of our lives are not spent working but it is an important portion of it, and doubly so in that the state depends on tax revenue for its outgoings; less worked, less income generated, less tax paid.

    The rCLmost of our livesrCY question is a distraction, anyway; the one thing we occupy our time with more than anything else is sleeping, and social conventions are irrelevant when alone (or with someone you trust) and unconscious.

    Have you genuinely never come across someone whose mood worsened coming up to her period? Do you accept that being aware this is possible is helpful for interacting with such a person?
    --
    rCyAs I sat looking up at the Guinness ad, I could never figure out /
    How your man stayed up on the surfboard after fourteen pints of stoutrCO
    (C. Moore)
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  • From Silvano@Silvano@noncisonopernessuno.it to alt.usage.english on Tue Aug 11 10:22:37 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english

    Bertel Lund Hansen hat am 11.08.2026 um 09:44 geschrieben:
    Den 11.08.2026 kl. 09.13 skrev Silvano:

    No, of course not. I'd consistently use they/them, but I can see the
    problem if Liz now wants she/her. If I got a chance, I'd ask her which
    pronoun she prefers with reference to the time and the publications
    before transition, especially if there's also a reference to the
    previous name. Even better, if possible, I'd ask her to review my text
    and approve it or change it.

    Asking other people's advice is commendable, but I do not let other
    people decide what I write.


    I can still decide not to write anything, if I can't accept the proposed changes and we can't find a text acceptable to both sides.
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  • From Madhu@enometh@meer.net to alt.usage.english on Thu Aug 13 11:06:20 2026
    From Newsgroup: alt.usage.english


    * Steve Hayes <8k3j7ll5o1gocv71hd2dbtf4j1oolscbo4@4ax.com> :
    Wrote on Mon, 10 Aug 2026 10:47:34 +0200:
    Nonsense! They encapsulate an almost universal division that is rooted
    in nature and is at the heart of how our species reproduces itself.

    Someone pointed out that Darwin showed that moneys made men of
    themselves, as opposed to the Bible, which showed that men made
    monkeys of themselves.

    Whatever you think of that, the fact that the meaning of "men" has
    changed since the 1950s and no longer distinguishes men from monkeys,
    but only from women, shows that it is indeed an artificial construct.

    "Man" used to mean the same as Russian "chelovek", but does no longer.
    We no longer have an English word for that concept.

    On another note, If you look at the spots in NIV 2011 (the gender neuter version) where "man/men" has not be text-search-replaced with the gender neutral versions, (mostly in the prophets), they all refer to punishment judgment and shaming of "man", in a bad light



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