From Newsgroup: alt.dreams

2025/03/21 Thursday- Marriage language

There were a few interesting segments last night, starting with the dreamer in something of a *large* home (perhaps a "mansion") *practically* the size of a mall, with *spacious* areas that appeared geared toward various functions/interests along the peripheries. I *think* I recall a type of grand,
central (parenthetically arched) stairway in the center, leading up one level. [The kind of stairway that is actually two stairs, looking like:
( ) leading up to the upper floor, which surrounded the lower floor like the cross-section of a donut.]

At one point, the dreamer (for some reason) needed to travel quickly from point
A to point B (I *think* to go up the stairs) within the home and was noting the
soft texture of the carpet, as the dreamer was running barefoot (on toe like a sprinter, rather than heel-to-toe like a moron.)

The moment the dreamer became aware of the toe-carpet texture/connection, the dream ended, sadly, as it was a *beautiful* home, and I'd have much enjoyed exploring the various areas, however, in a dream, the focus appears to follow the mind, and the mind went to the body (the toes) which caused me to awaken (slightly)- it caused the dream to end (clarity a beautiful 9.)

The more *interesting* (and encouraging!) dream segments involved the dreamer (basically, myself) and the dreamer's relationship with the woman (he) wished to
marry (Gina.)

The two of them got into something of a brief discussion, with the dreamer telling her that marriage had *always* been on (his) mind, and that getting *to*
the point of marriage had always been the objective to which the dreamer had been seeking an answer.

She mentioned *something* to the dreamer regarding (his) use of [feminine-submissive] language (which was a turn-off for her) so the dreamer switched to an alpha-male-dominant mode of "Ok- marry me." This *momentarily* opened a window of thought regarding [when] as if setting a future time only involved more delay/procrastination, so the dreamer switched to "Today. Now." (There was no sense of rejection from her, that she was complying with the Alpha-male's command.)

This began a sequence of events that involved her (Gina's) biological parents (from real life- only "IRL," her father passed a few years back) and also some activity regarding the venue (a Church facility) and the dreamer ended up in a two-piece suit (slacks and jacket) only (he) was wearing something like a T-shirt and was pondering finding a decent shirt (and tie) and *also* the ring(s) for the ceremony, when the dream ended. (Clarity a wondrous 9+ in places, a tad confusing towards the end, clarity 7-8.)

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