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Lauren Chapin, Youngest Child on 'Father Knows Best,' Dies at 80
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For six seasons, she was Kathy, a giggly tomboy whose father,
played by Robert Young, called her Kitten. Her offscreen life,
however, was harrowing.

Lauren Chapin, an actress who played the youngest of the three
wholesome, upbeat, all-American children on the popular 1950s
sitcom "Father Knows Best," but whose personal life was a
traumatic contrast to her best-remembered role, died on Tuesday
in Miami. She was 80.

Her death, in a hospital, was confirmed by her daughter, Summer
Chapin, who said the cause was cancer.

As she wrote in a well-received memoir, Ms. Chapin was raised by
a sexually abusive father and an alcoholic mother who pushed her
three children into acting careers. Her life completely fell
apart, she said, after "Father Knows Best" went off the air in
1960, and she began to feel like a 14-year-old has-been.

She spent nearly two decades in crises - addicted to heroin,
working as a call girl, in prison for check forgery, stints in
psychiatric facilities - until she said she became a born-again
Christian and evangelical minister. She reportedly raised millions
of dollars to help abused children and gave religious testimonials
about suffering and endurance.

"I'm not proud of my past, but in a strange way, I'm thankful for
it," she once said. "If Christ can love a person like I was, he
can love anyone. To me, that's the real message of my past."

Ms. Chapin was 9 when she was cast as Kathy Anderson, a giggly
tomboy with ribbons in her pigtails. Her television father, Jim
(Robert Young), an insurance agent, affectionately called her
Kitten. To her brother, Bud (Billy Gray), she was Squirt or
Shrimp. Her mother, Margaret (Jane Wyatt), quietly worried about
her, and her big sister, Betty (Elinor Donahue), generally
sympathized.

While her siblings on "Father Knows Best" faced typical teenage
dramas, Kathy was a bundle of grade-school energy, always
observing, frequently making fun and sometimes feeling terribly
misunderstood.

"You promised," she insisted when Dad hesitated to sleep all night
in a backyard tent with her. When she felt frustrated, she
complained melodramatically, "Why was I even born?" She burst into
tears - regularly.

Caught eavesdropping once, tumbling to the floor when the door that
she was hiding behind opened, she faced her father, who announced
sternly, "I'm waiting for an answer." Kathy paused, considered the
question, then looked up and offered, "I'm waiting until I can
think one up."

"Father Knows Best," which began its six-season run in 1954, became
one of the quintessential sitcoms of its era. Along with "Leave it
to Beaver" and "My Three Sons," it depicted an idyllic suburban
postwar American household and, over its decades in syndication,
was widely regarded as a cultural touchstone for the baby-boom
generation.

In her 1989 autobiography, "Father Does Know Best," written with
Andrew Collins, Ms. Chapin said that going to work as a child,
being one of the Andersons in the cozy house behind the white
picket fence, was almost like having a normal, loving family for
six years.

"I suppose deep down inside I knew that they were just a crew
working together," she wrote. "But they seemed to be more than that

Lauren Ann Chapin was born on May 23, 1945, in Los Angeles. She was
the youngest of three children of William Chapin, known as Ray, a
banker, and Marguerite (Barringer) Chapin, a classically trained
pianist who, her daughter said, became her children's agent to
fulfill her own stifled ambitions.

Her father, she wrote, began to abuse her when she turned 4. It
continued until she was almost 10 and began again in her teens when
she lived briefly with her father and his new family after her
parents divorced.

Meanwhile, Lauren made her screen debut at 7 on a 1952 episode of
"Lux Video Theater." She auditioned for "Father Knows Best" in the
summer of 1954 and said she won the role over hundreds of other
girls, partly because she looked so much like one of Mr. Young's
real-life daughters.

The series changed networks twice - from CBS to NBC and then back to
CBS - rising steadily in the ratings until it was in the top 10.
During the show's run, Ms. Chapin appeared twice on the cover of
TV Guide. One year, she accepted an Emmy Award on Ms. Wyatt's
behalf, forgetting as she walked to the stage that she had taken off
her shoes.

After "Father Knows Best" ended, Ms. Chapin saw her career crater.
She enrolled at a local high school but often skipped class.

By the time she was 18, she said, she made several suicide attempts,
was married and divorced, and had eight miscarriages. In 1964, she
sued her mother for her television earnings, claiming her mother had
forced her to sign over all rerun benefits. She later said she never
earned any money from syndication.

"I really felt like God was out to get me," Ms. Chapin recalled in a
1989 interview on the syndicated talk show "Live With Regis and
Kathie Lee."

She also described how, after her first divorce, she blew her $19,000
in savings on an eight-month drug spree of amphetamines, morphine and
heroin. Her dealer, she said, promised that she could earn $1,000 a
night as a call girl, especially if she dressed as a little girl. She
complied.

Ms. Chapin had constant crises with drugs, abusive men, medical
emergencies and psychiatric commitment. When her memoir was
published, Kirkus Reviews called the book "an astounding 20-year drug
trip through hell, riveting from first word to last."

At one moment of desperation, she ended up in prison, convicted of
check forgery when she tried to cash a stolen check. She served three
years of a seven-year sentence, during which she received a high
school equivalency diploma.

She returned to television with two "Father Knows Best" reunion films
(both in 1977). Following a long absence from the screen, she
returned for her last role, on the YouTube series "School Bus
Diaries," as a grandmotherly bus driver who likes to high-five her
student passengers.

Ms. Chapin lived at various times in Killeen, Texas, and Orlando,
Florida, among other places, and worked as a flight attendant,
certified natural childbirth teacher, fragrance counter manager and
AIDS foundation fund-raiser. She had, by the early 1980s, become an
ordained evangelical minister. The greatest satisfaction, she said,
was using her position and her testimonies to help other addicts.

Ms. Chapin's marriages to Gerald Jones, Wilton Walls Jr. and Robert
L. Kelley ended in divorce. In addition to her children Summer and
Matthew, both from relationships, she is survived by a brother,
Michael Chapin; and two grandsons. Her brother Billy Chapin, who as a
child starred with Robert Mitchum in the Gothic-horror film "The Night
of the Hunter" (1955), died in 2016.

When her memoir came out, she spoke to Redbook magazine about her
often-stark and harrowing life and how, in some ways, her old TV show
provided a path forward.

"I have nothing but admiration for the message of 'Father Knows Best,'"
she said. "I'm trying to raise my family like the Andersons - I believe
the husband should be the head of the household, the mom should be home
nurturing the kids, and the whole family should attend church. After
all, if I didn't have 'Father Knows Best' to pattern myself after, what
else would I have?"



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