I've been having problems with pronouns lately. No, not the
third-person pronouns everyone talks about, but first-person
pronouns.
For example, I want to say that Mark and I went to Second Time
Books for many years and I still go there. Saying "I have gone to
Second Time Books for many years" makes it sound as though it was
just me, yet "Mark and I have gone to Second Time Books for many
years" sounds like he is still going. So I'm stuck with the rather >awkward-sounding "Mark and I went to Second Time Books for many
years and I still go there."
He has erected a multitude of New Offices, and sent<snip>
hither swarms of Officers to harrass our people,
and eat out their substance.
--Thomas Jefferson
[I wish I could find the comment someone left on a pronoun article
declaring emphatically that people shouldn't use "they" and
"their" as singular pronouns--and did so themself when using
pronouns to refer back to "someone" or something similar. On the
other hand, this is apparently fairly common.]
[I wish I could find the comment someone left on a pronoun article
declaring emphatically that people shouldn't use "they" and
"their" as singular pronouns--and did so themself when using
pronouns to refer back to "someone" or something similar. On the
other hand, this is apparently fairly common.]
In article <10hmhv6$12ff7$1@dont-email.me>,
evelynchimelisleeper@gmail.com (Evelyn C. Leeper) wrote:
[I wish I could find the comment someone left on a pronoun article
declaring emphatically that people shouldn't use "they" and
"their" as singular pronouns--and did so themself when using
pronouns to refer back to "someone" or something similar. On the
other hand, this is apparently fairly common.]
Incidentally, I was taught at school back in the sixties this was
perfectly OK when referring to a person of an unknown gender. I think
Ben Yagoda in his Not-one-off Britishisms blog call this epicene pronouns
and they are much more common in British English.
And that last paragraph shows where I stand on third-person
pronouns. I didn't even think twice about typing "they" and
"their". In this, I am a Janeite.
[I wish I could find the comment someone left on a pronoun article
declaring emphatically that people shouldn't use "they" and
"their" as singular pronouns--and did so themself when using
pronouns to refer back to "someone" or something similar.-a On the
other hand, this is apparently fairly common.]
I don't know where I read this, but James Redekop (whoever that is)
said, 'And before anyone complains about singular "they", just
remember: it's older than singular "you".'
On 12/14/25 9:35 AM, Evelyn C. Leeper wrote:
And that last paragraph shows where I stand on third-person
pronouns. I didn't even think twice about typing "they" and
"their". In this, I am a Janeite.
[I wish I could find the comment someone left on a pronoun article
declaring emphatically that people shouldn't use "they" and
"their" as singular pronouns--and did so themself when using
pronouns to refer back to "someone" or something similar.-a On the
other hand, this is apparently fairly common.]
I sometimes use "they" when referring to an indefinite individual.
However, I don't think a person should declare oneself a committee.
In the dystopia of Ayn Rand's _Anthem_, plural pronouns are used >exclusively, and using a first person singular pronoun is a capital
crime. Most people don't know such pronouns ever existed.
In article <10hrir7$2nqai$1@dont-email.me>,
Gary McGath <garym@mcgath.com> wrote:
On 12/14/25 9:35 AM, Evelyn C. Leeper wrote:
And that last paragraph shows where I stand on third-person
pronouns. I didn't even think twice about typing "they" and
"their". In this, I am a Janeite.
[I wish I could find the comment someone left on a pronoun article
declaring emphatically that people shouldn't use "they" and
"their" as singular pronouns--and did so themself when using
pronouns to refer back to "someone" or something similar.-a On the
other hand, this is apparently fairly common.]
I sometimes use "they" when referring to an indefinite individual.
However, I don't think a person should declare oneself a committee.
In the dystopia of Ayn Rand's _Anthem_, plural pronouns are used
exclusively, and using a first person singular pronoun is a capital
crime. Most people don't know such pronouns ever existed.
[Hal Heydt]
In Graydon SAuders _Commonweal_ series, "they"/"them" is used for
persons who are not intimate partners.
"Henry called. They need a lift."
In article <10i18rr$drob$1@dont-email.me>, petertrei@gmail.com (Cryptoengineer) wrote:
"Henry called. They need a lift."
That seems a perfectly reasonable construction to me. British.
In article <10i18rr$drob$1@dont-email.me>, petertrei@gmail.com (Cryptoengineer) wrote:
"Henry called. They need a lift."
That seems a perfectly reasonable construction to me. British.
Perfectly correct usage in Australia, as I was taught by my
Cheers,
The default there, assuming one doesn't know Henry's preferred
pronouns, would be "Henry called, he needs a lift." Making
assumptions based on the name.
In article <inne1m-6cf.ln1@paranoia.mcleod-schmidt.id.au>,
grschmidt@acm.org (Gary R. Schmidt) wrote:
Perfectly correct usage in Australia, as I was taught by my
Cheers,
By your what?
In article <10i1c6s$etf0$1@dont-email.me>, tppm@rr.ca.com (Tim Merrigan) >wrote:
The default there, assuming one doesn't know Henry's preferred
pronouns, would be "Henry called, he needs a lift." Making
assumptions based on the name.
I'm sure there are women called Henry, short for Henrietta. And Enid
Blyton had a girl called George in the Famous Five. For that matter, the >main character in Dead Like Me was called George.
On 12/19/2025 10:07 AM, Paul Dormer wrote:
In article <inne1m-6cf.ln1@paranoia.mcleod-schmidt.id.au>,
grschmidt@acm.org (Gary R. Schmidt) wrote:
Perfectly correct usage in Australia, as I was taught by my
-a-a-a-aCheers,
By your what?
By their grand parents, as it says in the original post you truncated.
Yes, older OED editions mentioned the male pronouns including the
female. This has been removed and I think that is unfortunate.
By their grand parents, as it says in the original post you
truncated.
In article <10i4agq$51t$1@panix2.panix.com>, kludge@panix.com (Scott
Dorsey) wrote:
Yes, older OED editions mentioned the male pronouns including the
female. This has been removed and I think that is unfortunate.
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
In article <memo.20251220161633.24716B@pauldormer.cix.co.uk>,
Paul Dormer <prd@pauldormer.cix.co.uk> wrote:
In article <10i4agq$51t$1@panix2.panix.com>, kludge@panix.com (Scott
Dorsey) wrote:
Yes, older OED editions mentioned the male pronouns including the
female. This has been removed and I think that is unfortunate.
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
To be honest, both of those options are often confusing.
--scott
On 12/20/25 11:40, Scott Dorsey wrote:
In article <memo.20251220161633.24716B@pauldormer.cix.co.uk>,
Paul Dormer <prd@pauldormer.cix.co.uk> wrote:
In article <10i4agq$51t$1@panix2.panix.com>, kludge@panix.com (Scott
Dorsey) wrote:
Yes, older OED editions mentioned the male pronouns including the
female. This has been removed and I think that is unfortunate.
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
To be honest, both of those options are often confusing.
--scott
And when we're done, we can talk about the Oxford comma.
Evelyn C. Leeper <evelynchimelisleeper@gmail.com> wrote:
On 12/20/25 11:40, Scott Dorsey wrote:
In article <memo.20251220161633.24716B@pauldormer.cix.co.uk>,
Paul Dormer <prd@pauldormer.cix.co.uk> wrote:
In article <10i4agq$51t$1@panix2.panix.com>, kludge@panix.com (Scott
Dorsey) wrote:
Yes, older OED editions mentioned the male pronouns including the
female. This has been removed and I think that is unfortunate.
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
To be honest, both of those options are often confusing.
--scott
And when we're done, we can talk about the Oxford comma.
And this, in short, is why we need a language academy.
--scott
Evelyn C. Leeper <evelynchimelisleeper@gmail.com> wrote:
On 12/20/25 11:40, Scott Dorsey wrote:
In article <memo.20251220161633.24716B@pauldormer.cix.co.uk>,
Paul Dormer <prd@pauldormer.cix.co.uk> wrote:
In article <10i4agq$51t$1@panix2.panix.com>, kludge@panix.com (Scott
Dorsey) wrote:
Yes, older OED editions mentioned the male pronouns including the
female. This has been removed and I think that is unfortunate.
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
To be honest, both of those options are often confusing.
--scott
And when we're done, we can talk about the Oxford comma.
And this, in short, is why we need a language academy.
--scott
The French have the Academie Francaise, but the French still continue to
use anglicisms such as "email" (rather than "courriel") and "streaming" >(rather than "diffusion en direct"). Given how independent-minded
Americans can be, why on earth would you think an official language
academy would have any effect?
(Example: In New York, probably only about ten percent call it
"Avenue of the Americas" rather than "Sixth Avenue". And we've seen
how popular the diktat to rename the Gulf of Mexico or Denali has
been.)
Evelyn C. Leeper <evelynchimelisleeper@gmail.com> wrote:
(Example: In New York, probably only about ten percent call it
"Avenue of the Americas" rather than "Sixth Avenue". And we've seen
how popular the diktat to rename the Gulf of Mexico or Denali has
been.)
He may have finally reached the limit now that he's renamed the
Kennedy Center for himself. People have been comparing this to
adding one's own name to someoene else's tombstone.
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
On Sat, 20 Dec 2025 16:16 +0000 (GMT Standard Time),
prd@pauldormer.cix.co.uk (Paul Dormer) wrote:
I'd much rather people used the singular they.
Has anybody said "they-all" yet?
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