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When I was 14 and working at the supermarket, you never made fun ofI had a philosophy professor in college whose specialty was linquistics. He would teach at American University in Shanghai and could speak Chinese. He made an excellent comparison of the culture to us and his thesis was that they had a deeply instilled art of manners and we have lost ours. His point; manners are rules of behavior at first but then they become transcendent whereby you realise that you aren't the "center of the universe" but that there are other people that exist besides yourself. I was taught manners when I was a child and I did so with my daughters when I raised them.
people or called them names. Just what the hell is wrong with people nowadays?
When I was 14 and working at the supermarket, you never made fun ofWhat the heck? I bet, if that pot-bellied ignoramus traced his lineage, he was probably a descendent of a once foriegner. As you stated, people like him need to go. If he was that concerned about this person slowing him down, move to another line - just keep your pie hole shut.
people or called them names. Just what the hell is wrong with people nowadays?
thesis was that they had a deeply instilled art of manners and we haveThat is a great insight. Instilling manners at a young age will make you a better person - PERIOD. I have not been at the college I am teaching at long, so I have not witnessed anything that got my attention. In fact, most of the students I run across have pretty good manners. Social skills - somewhat lacking - but manners.
lost ours. His point; manners are rules of behavior at first but then
they become transcendent whereby you realise that you aren't the "center
of the universe" but that there are other people that exist besides
PS - I wanted to "Like" your reply @Jahmas. Dang social media!But BBSing is "social" isn't it?
saying things like "Probably an illegal! Deport her!". I wasn't putting
up with that shit and turned around and said straight up "Foreigners I welcome, people like you need to leave." and before the pot bellied fool could respond I approached the lady and gave her gentle advice on how to
run the card. She smiled and gave me a thank you as she left. The