• Double standards log

    From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Sat Jul 26 07:42:31 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    The post that you submitted to uk.legal.moderated has been rejected by
    a moderator.

    This appears to the moderator to be off-topic for uk.legal.moderated
    or has insufficient law-related material.

    ...............................................................

    [Todal]

    The woman I have referred to is 82. She is a reliable and truthful
    person and I find it offensive of you to imply that she must be lying.



    [Me]

    I generally find childhood memories among people in their 80s to be
    less than 100% reliable.

    YMMV



    [Todal]

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks >(especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of 'em.



    [Me]

    Just when I thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come
    back again.


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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Sun Jul 27 17:40:50 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 26/07/2025 07:42, Martin Harran wrote:
    The post that you submitted to uk.legal.moderated has been rejected by
    a moderator.

    This appears to the moderator to be off-topic for uk.legal.moderated
    or has insufficient law-related material.

    ...............................................................

    [Todal]

    The woman I have referred to is 82. She is a reliable and truthful
    person and I find it offensive of you to imply that she must be lying. >>>>


    [Me]

    I generally find childhood memories among people in their 80s to be
    less than 100% reliable.

    YMMV



    [Todal]

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of 'em. >>


    [Me]

    Just when I thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come
    back again.



    Maybe you see yourself as a bed bug, or a louse.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Sun Jul 27 18:23:40 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Sun, 27 Jul 2025 17:40:50 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 26/07/2025 07:42, Martin Harran wrote:
    The post that you submitted to uk.legal.moderated has been rejected by
    a moderator.

    This appears to the moderator to be off-topic for uk.legal.moderated
    or has insufficient law-related material.

    ...............................................................

    [Todal]

    The woman I have referred to is 82. She is a reliable and truthful >>>>>> person and I find it offensive of you to imply that she must be lying. >>>>>


    [Me]

    I generally find childhood memories among people in their 80s to be
    less than 100% reliable.

    YMMV



    [Todal]

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of 'em.



    [Me]

    Just when I thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come
    back again.



    Maybe you see yourself as a bed bug, or a louse.

    Nah, just someone who can recognise a Trump-wannabe who thinks he can
    use his administrative powers to eliminate those who criticise him.

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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Mon Jul 28 17:36:45 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 27/07/2025 18:23, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Sun, 27 Jul 2025 17:40:50 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 26/07/2025 07:42, Martin Harran wrote:
    The post that you submitted to uk.legal.moderated has been rejected by
    a moderator.

    This appears to the moderator to be off-topic for uk.legal.moderated
    or has insufficient law-related material.

    ...............................................................

    [Todal]

    The woman I have referred to is 82. She is a reliable and truthful >>>>>>> person and I find it offensive of you to imply that she must be lying. >>>>>>


    [Me]

    I generally find childhood memories among people in their 80s to be >>>>>> less than 100% reliable.

    YMMV



    [Todal]

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of 'em.



    [Me]

    Just when I thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come
    back again.



    Maybe you see yourself as a bed bug, or a louse.

    Nah, just someone who can recognise a Trump-wannabe who thinks he can
    use his administrative powers to eliminate those who criticise him.


    As a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning obedience
    to authority. I am surprised to see you complaining about ex cathedra decisions now. Perhaps you have spunk after all. I don't think you need
    to display your spunk as often as you do.

    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient
    law-related material. You know that.
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  • From BrritSki@rtilbury@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Mon Jul 28 17:50:49 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:

    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law-
    related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 08:43:42 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:

    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:

    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law-
    related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 08:48:26 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:36:45 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 27/07/2025 18:23, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Sun, 27 Jul 2025 17:40:50 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 26/07/2025 07:42, Martin Harran wrote:
    The post that you submitted to uk.legal.moderated has been rejected by >>>> a moderator.

    This appears to the moderator to be off-topic for uk.legal.moderated
    or has insufficient law-related material.

    ...............................................................

    [Todal]

    The woman I have referred to is 82. She is a reliable and truthful >>>>>>>> person and I find it offensive of you to imply that she must be lying. >>>>>>>


    [Me]

    I generally find childhood memories among people in their 80s to be >>>>>>> less than 100% reliable.

    YMMV



    [Todal]

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of 'em.



    [Me]

    Just when I thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come
    back again.



    Maybe you see yourself as a bed bug, or a louse.

    Nah, just someone who can recognise a Trump-wannabe who thinks he can
    use his administrative powers to eliminate those who criticise him.


    As a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning obedience
    to authority. I am surprised to see you complaining about ex cathedra >decisions now. Perhaps you have spunk after all. I don't think you need
    to display your spunk as often as you do.


    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is
    an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient
    law-related material. You know that.

    It was a reply to a post that was totally unjustified. with no
    law-related material of any kind, just another of your tiresome rants
    against the Catholic Church.
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  • From Jeff Gaines@jgnewsid@outlook.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 08:33:38 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com>
    Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is
    an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts
    seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some
    poncy Latin name :-)
    --
    Jeff Gaines Dorset UK
    This joke was so funny when I heard it for the first time I fell of my dinosaur.
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  • From BrritSki@rtilbury@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 09:54:11 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:

    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:

    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law-
    related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.
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  • From Jon Ribbens@jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 09:08:35 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law-
    related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point, Martin's was just meaningless personal abuse.
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  • From BrritSki@rtilbury@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 13:00:22 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law-
    related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    Or the legal content ?

    We see your sanctimony too. Hypocritical cant (sic)
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  • From Roger Hayter@roger@hayter.org to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 12:33:11 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 29 Jul 2025 at 13:00:22 BST, "BrritSki" <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:

    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    Or the legal content ?

    We see your sanctimony too. Hypocritical cant (sic)

    An extraordinary coordinated onslaught on the Todal by Catholics and their fellow-travellers; do we think they are being antisemitic??
    --

    Roger Hayter
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  • From Jon Ribbens@jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 12:42:57 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Martin in response provided no argument of any kind.

    HTH.
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  • From billy bookcase@billy@anon.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 14:35:58 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation


    "BrritSki" <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote in message news:merrelFeivfU1@mid.individual.net...
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    Or the legal content ?


    Dear me.

    Original post

    Martin Harran:

    "I generally find childhood memories among people in their 80s to be
    less than 100% reliable."

    Todal's response:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of 'em.

    Todal is simply pointing out that Martin Harran's theory could possibly be mounted as a Defence, in a Court of Law by perpetrators of child abuse.

    Which is a sound legal point

    Whereas Martin Harran's rejected reply which is the origin of this thread

    Just when I thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come
    back again.

    Is just a straightforward ad hominem; with no legal content at all

    Because, rather than addressing Todal's argument; it instead consists
    of a personal remark about Todal; specifically in respect of some
    itch or other.


    bb


    .









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  • From Ottavio Caruso@ottavio2006-usenet2012@yahoo.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Tue Jul 29 15:03:27 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    Op 28/07/2025 om 17:36 schreef The Todal:
    As a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning obedience
    to authority.

    Surely not in Ulster.
    --
    Ottavio Caruso
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Wed Jul 30 09:00:07 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >> >> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.


    Martin in response provided no argument of any kind.

    Apparently it was beyond your understanding.


    HTH.

    Todal's post contained no argument let alone legal content, it was
    just more of his regular anti-Catholic ranting. That's fair enough, I
    accept people's right to rant, but I also regard others as having the
    right to call it out for what it is. Where the double standards come
    in is Todal abusing his position as moderator to try to shut me down
    from calling out his rant. Fortunately, we have UNNM as a place to
    highlight such hypocrisy.






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  • From JNugent@JNugent73@mail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Wed Jul 30 11:27:06 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 30/07/2025 09:00 AM, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>>>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.


    Martin in response provided no argument of any kind.

    Apparently it was beyond your understanding.


    HTH.

    Todal's post contained no argument let alone legal content, it was
    just more of his regular anti-Catholic ranting. That's fair enough, I
    accept people's right to rant, but I also regard others as having the
    right to call it out for what it is. Where the double standards come
    in is Todal abusing his position as moderator to try to shut me down
    from calling out his rant. Fortunately, we have UNNM as a place to
    highlight such hypocrisy.

    I think I might be joining you soon.
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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Wed Jul 30 12:22:07 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 30/07/2025 11:27, JNugent wrote:
    On 30/07/2025 09:00 AM, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens
    <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> >>>>>>> wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules
    applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They
    forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring.-a Let's gaslight the lot >>>> of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.


    Martin in response provided no argument of any kind.

    Apparently it was beyond your understanding.


    HTH.

    Todal's post contained no argument let alone legal content, it was
    just more of his regular anti-Catholic ranting. That's fair enough, I
    accept people's right to rant, but I also regard others as having the
    right to call it out for what it is. Where the double standards come
    in is Todal abusing his position as moderator to try to shut me down
    from calling out his rant. Fortunately, we have UNNM as a place to
    highlight such hypocrisy.

    I think I might be joining you soon.

    And then the world will be as one. In the words of the great John Lennon.
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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Wed Jul 30 12:30:21 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 30/07/2025 09:00, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com>
    wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to >>>>>>> your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.
    I think it's time you understood that you need to improve your powers of communication and not assume that everyone will understand the sentence
    that is in your head.

    You wanted to discredit the genuine memories of my elderly female
    relative because it didn't fit with your personal faith in the quality
    of Catholic teachers.

    To claim that old people have unreliable memories is an effective way to
    shut down allegations of historic sexual abuse.

    What we do often find, however, is that abusers who are in their 80s
    will often conveniently claim to have forgotten the assaults they
    carried out and to say they have genuine doubts about whether the
    assaults ever took place. Abusers are not only Catholics and not only Christians and not only religious, which should go without saying. And I
    never claimed that my elderly female relative was assaulted by teachers,
    only that she heard some distasteful dogma.

    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.
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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Wed Jul 30 12:35:25 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 29/07/2025 09:33, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com>
    Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is
    an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some
    poncy Latin name :-)


    What's more, the phrase "ad hominem" is misused more than it is
    correctly used. Martin thought he had identified an ad hominem in what I
    said but he was wrong. It was, if anything, a reductio ad absurdum. If
    you disagree with Martin he takes it very personally and sees it as an
    ad hominem.

    I think most Christians are rather better at displaying humility and the ability to acknowledge their mistakes. Truly it is they who will enter
    the kingdom of heaven.
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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Wed Jul 30 12:36:24 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 29/07/2025 15:03, Ottavio Caruso wrote:
    Op 28/07/2025 om 17:36 schreef The Todal:
    As a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning obedience
    to authority.

    Surely not in Ulster.


    Depends if you value your kneecaps.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 07:59:13 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:35:25 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 29/07/2025 09:33, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com>
    Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is
    an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts
    seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some
    poncy Latin name :-)


    What's more, the phrase "ad hominem" is misused more than it is
    correctly used. Martin thought he had identified an ad hominem in what I >said but he was wrong. It was, if anything, a reductio ad absurdum. If
    you disagree with Martin he takes it very personally and sees it as an
    ad hominem.

    You choose not to indicate what you actually said that you believe I
    wrong labelled ad hominem. Was it any of the following? If not,
    perhaps you might give some indication of what it was:


    On Tue, 13 May 2025 10:59:20 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    I picture you in short
    trousers as a choirboy in your catholic church, admiring the fake tears >produced by the statue of the Virgin Mary.

    On Tue, 13 May 2025 23:28:53 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    However, I think your personal notion of "love" might be rather
    different from the notion used by non-believers. Yours probably
    resembles the love shown by an angry schoolmaster wielding the cane to >punish a disobedient schoolboy.

    On Thu, 5 Jun 2025 13:52:32 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    Come off it. You're a Catholic. You never challenged anybody. If your
    priest was a predatory paedophile you'd quietly advise the choirboys to >avoid being alone with him and leave it at that.

    On 07/06/2025 16:01, The Todal wrote:
    But you failed to understand that point, because you really aren't an
    expert on very much. If it isn't in your catechism, it's invisible to you.








    I think most Christians are rather better at displaying humility and the >ability to acknowledge their mistakes. Truly it is they who will enter
    the kingdom of heaven.
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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 09:48:10 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31/07/2025 07:59, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:35:25 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 29/07/2025 09:33, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com>
    Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is
    an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts >>> seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some
    poncy Latin name :-)


    What's more, the phrase "ad hominem" is misused more than it is
    correctly used. Martin thought he had identified an ad hominem in what I
    said but he was wrong. It was, if anything, a reductio ad absurdum. If
    you disagree with Martin he takes it very personally and sees it as an
    ad hominem.

    You choose not to indicate what you actually said that you believe I
    wrong labelled ad hominem. Was it any of the following? If not,
    perhaps you might give some indication of what it was:


    On Tue, 13 May 2025 10:59:20 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    I picture you in short
    trousers as a choirboy in your catholic church, admiring the fake tears
    produced by the statue of the Virgin Mary.

    On Tue, 13 May 2025 23:28:53 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    However, I think your personal notion of "love" might be rather
    different from the notion used by non-believers. Yours probably
    resembles the love shown by an angry schoolmaster wielding the cane to
    punish a disobedient schoolboy.

    On Thu, 5 Jun 2025 13:52:32 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    Come off it. You're a Catholic. You never challenged anybody. If your
    priest was a predatory paedophile you'd quietly advise the choirboys to
    avoid being alone with him and leave it at that.

    On 07/06/2025 16:01, The Todal wrote:
    But you failed to understand that point, because you really aren't an
    expert on very much. If it isn't in your catechism, it's invisible to you.



    Those are ad hominems.

    This one wasn't.

    "Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of
    'em. "







    I think most Christians are rather better at displaying humility and the
    ability to acknowledge their mistakes. Truly it is they who will enter
    the kingdom of heaven.

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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 13:41:58 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 30/07/2025 09:00, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens
    <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> >>>>>>> wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual
    argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot
    of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.
    I think it's time you understood that you need to improve your powers of >communication and not assume that everyone will understand the sentence
    that is in your head.

    You wanted to discredit the genuine memories of my elderly female
    relative because it didn't fit with your personal faith in the quality
    of Catholic teachers.

    I said nothing whatsoever about your aunt, I simply stated a general
    principle that peoplerCOs memories get less reliable as they get older, especially when they get into their 80s+. Do you seriously want to
    disagree with that principle?

    There are, of course, exceptions to every rule and individuals
    certainly donrCOt all suffer memory decline at the same rate. That is
    why I specifically added rCLYMMVrCY to acknowledge that I havenrCOt a clue
    as to how reliable your auntrCOs memory is and, unlike you, I donrCOt make judgements about people I have never met or had any dealings with.


    To claim that old people have unreliable memories is an effective way to >shut down allegations of historic sexual abuse.

    What we do often find, however, is that abusers who are in their 80s
    will often conveniently claim to have forgotten the assaults they
    carried out and to say they have genuine doubts about whether the
    assaults ever took place. Abusers are not only Catholics and not only >Christians and not only religious, which should go without saying.

    I challenge you to give an example rCo just one will do rCo of me ever suggesting that people claiming to be abused should not be believed
    because of memory issues; or, indeed, should not be believed for *any*
    reason.

    Or even give an example of any person claiming abuse by priests or
    religious whose claim was dismissed by investigators because the
    accused claimed they had no recollection of it.

    And I
    never claimed that my elderly female relative was assaulted by teachers, >only that she heard some distasteful dogma.

    I never mentioned anything about abuse, you were the one who
    introduced it when you went off on one of your ill-formed rants.



    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 13:55:37 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Thu, 31 Jul 2025 09:48:10 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 31/07/2025 07:59, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:35:25 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 29/07/2025 09:33, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com>
    Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is >>>>> an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts >>>> seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some
    poncy Latin name :-)


    What's more, the phrase "ad hominem" is misused more than it is
    correctly used. Martin thought he had identified an ad hominem in what I >>> said but he was wrong. It was, if anything, a reductio ad absurdum. If
    you disagree with Martin he takes it very personally and sees it as an
    ad hominem.

    You choose not to indicate what you actually said that you believe I
    wrong labelled ad hominem. Was it any of the following? If not,
    perhaps you might give some indication of what it was:


    On Tue, 13 May 2025 10:59:20 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    I picture you in short
    trousers as a choirboy in your catholic church, admiring the fake tears
    produced by the statue of the Virgin Mary.

    On Tue, 13 May 2025 23:28:53 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    However, I think your personal notion of "love" might be rather
    different from the notion used by non-believers. Yours probably
    resembles the love shown by an angry schoolmaster wielding the cane to
    punish a disobedient schoolboy.

    On Thu, 5 Jun 2025 13:52:32 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    Come off it. You're a Catholic. You never challenged anybody. If your
    priest was a predatory paedophile you'd quietly advise the choirboys to
    avoid being alone with him and leave it at that.

    On 07/06/2025 16:01, The Todal wrote:
    But you failed to understand that point, because you really aren't an
    expert on very much. If it isn't in your catechism, it's invisible to you. >>


    Those are ad hominems.

    This one wasn't.

    "Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks >(especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of
    'em. "

    I canrCOt find anywhere that I said that was ad hominem, please correct
    me if IrCOve missed it.

    Perhaps *you* are suffering memory issues and are getting confused
    with me telling Jon Ribbens that it was just more of your regular
    anti-Catholic ranting.

    Or maybe confused with your follow up post that I did label as
    ad-hominem where you said

    rCLAs a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning
    obedience to authority. I am surprised to see you complaining about ex
    cathedra decisions now. Perhaps you have spunk after all. I don't
    think you need to display your spunk as often as you do.rCY

    To give credit where it is due, having previously admitted to
    quote-mining, you now admit to frequent use of ad hominem. Maybe you
    might complete the hat-trick by admitted that when your arguments run
    out of steam, you switch to attacking stuff I never said.








    I think most Christians are rather better at displaying humility and the >>> ability to acknowledge their mistakes. Truly it is they who will enter
    the kingdom of heaven.
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  • From Roger Hayter@roger@hayter.org to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 13:28:18 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com>
    wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 30/07/2025 09:00, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens
    <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> >>>>>>>> wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual >>>>>> argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks >>>>>>> (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget >>>>>>> all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot >>>>> of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.
    I think it's time you understood that you need to improve your powers of
    communication and not assume that everyone will understand the sentence
    that is in your head.

    You wanted to discredit the genuine memories of my elderly female
    relative because it didn't fit with your personal faith in the quality
    of Catholic teachers.

    I said nothing whatsoever about your aunt, I simply stated a general principle that peoplerCOs memories get less reliable as they get older, especially when they get into their 80s+. Do you seriously want to
    disagree with that principle?

    It is simply untrue. As people age their short term memory degrades,
    ultimately in a retrograde way. But childhood memories if anything get more vivid with frequent recapitulation. Just a factual aside; you can ignore it if you want.





    There are, of course, exceptions to every rule and individuals
    certainly donrCOt all suffer memory decline at the same rate. That is
    why I specifically added rCLYMMVrCY to acknowledge that I havenrCOt a clue
    as to how reliable your auntrCOs memory is and, unlike you, I donrCOt make judgements about people I have never met or had any dealings with.


    To claim that old people have unreliable memories is an effective way to
    shut down allegations of historic sexual abuse.

    What we do often find, however, is that abusers who are in their 80s
    will often conveniently claim to have forgotten the assaults they
    carried out and to say they have genuine doubts about whether the
    assaults ever took place. Abusers are not only Catholics and not only
    Christians and not only religious, which should go without saying.

    I challenge you to give an example rCo just one will do rCo of me ever suggesting that people claiming to be abused should not be believed
    because of memory issues; or, indeed, should not be believed for *any* reason.

    Or even give an example of any person claiming abuse by priests or
    religious whose claim was dismissed by investigators because the
    accused claimed they had no recollection of it.

    And I
    never claimed that my elderly female relative was assaulted by teachers,
    only that she heard some distasteful dogma.

    I never mentioned anything about abuse, you were the one who
    introduced it when you went off on one of your ill-formed rants.



    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.
    --
    Roger Hayter
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  • From Roger Hayter@roger@hayter.org to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 13:30:01 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com>
    wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?
    --

    Roger Hayter
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  • From JNugent@JNugent73@mail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 15:41:09 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31/07/2025 02:30 PM, Roger Hayter wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Surely that should have been "But is any one of us well-placed?"?
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 16:34:22 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31 Jul 2025 13:28:18 GMT, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> wrote:

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> >wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 30/07/2025 09:00, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Tue, 29 Jul 2025 12:42:57 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens
    <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 10:08, Jon Ribbens wrote:
    On 2025-07-29, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 08:43, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Mon, 28 Jul 2025 17:50:49 +0100, BrritSki <rtilbury@gmail.com> >>>>>>>>> wrote:
    On 28/07/2025 17:36, The Todal wrote:
    The rejection was, of course, totally justified. Insufficient law- >>>>>>>>>>> related material. You know that.

    I totally agree. The problem was that exactly the same rules applied to
    your post that he was replying to. You know that.

    Correct. That is where the double standards come in.

    Exactly.

    You know that, he knows that, we all know that.

    Except we don't, because it isn't true. Todal's post was an actual >>>>>>> argument on the point
    Here is the Todal idiot's text quoted:

    Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks >>>>>>>> (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot >>>>>> of 'em.

    Where is the "actual argument on point" in that ?

    It's pointing out that, contrary to Martin's claim, you can't just
    airily dismiss peoples' recollections on the basis that they're old.

    Which was not at all my claim.
    I think it's time you understood that you need to improve your powers of >>> communication and not assume that everyone will understand the sentence
    that is in your head.

    You wanted to discredit the genuine memories of my elderly female
    relative because it didn't fit with your personal faith in the quality
    of Catholic teachers.

    I said nothing whatsoever about your aunt, I simply stated a general
    principle that peoplerCOs memories get less reliable as they get older,
    especially when they get into their 80s+. Do you seriously want to
    disagree with that principle?

    It is simply untrue. As people age their short term memory degrades, >ultimately in a retrograde way. But childhood memories if anything get more >vivid with frequent recapitulation. Just a factual aside; you can ignore it if >you want.

    ItrCOs not a question of ignoring it, itrCOs a question of whether I take
    your opinion when I know nothing about your qualifications or the
    opinion of published researchers in the field e.g

    https://www.researchgate.net/publication/337394916_The_Effect_of_Age_on_Memory

    rCLLong term-memory is more affected in the area of episodic memory
    more than the two other types. The explanation given in the
    literature ascribed such observation to the two processes of
    encoding and retrieving to and from the long-term memory. At the
    encoding level, older adults are inclined to deposit/encode new
    input in well-established manner by which new information get
    subsumed under certain existing category; if the category is not
    there, then the encoding process becomes more difficult. As for the
    retrieval process, older people tend to exert more effort to
    recall information due to confusion, interferences, and ill
    categorized information. rCL

    Not a difficult decision to be honest, especially when it echoes my
    own experience in dealing with older people.








    There are, of course, exceptions to every rule and individuals
    certainly donrCOt all suffer memory decline at the same rate. That is
    why I specifically added rCLYMMVrCY to acknowledge that I havenrCOt a clue >> as to how reliable your auntrCOs memory is and, unlike you, I donrCOt make >> judgements about people I have never met or had any dealings with.


    To claim that old people have unreliable memories is an effective way to >>> shut down allegations of historic sexual abuse.

    What we do often find, however, is that abusers who are in their 80s
    will often conveniently claim to have forgotten the assaults they
    carried out and to say they have genuine doubts about whether the
    assaults ever took place. Abusers are not only Catholics and not only
    Christians and not only religious, which should go without saying.

    I challenge you to give an example rCo just one will do rCo of me ever
    suggesting that people claiming to be abused should not be believed
    because of memory issues; or, indeed, should not be believed for *any*
    reason.

    Or even give an example of any person claiming abuse by priests or
    religious whose claim was dismissed by investigators because the
    accused claimed they had no recollection of it.

    And I
    never claimed that my elderly female relative was assaulted by teachers, >>> only that she heard some distasteful dogma.

    I never mentioned anything about abuse, you were the one who
    introduced it when you went off on one of your ill-formed rants.



    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 16:35:46 2025
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    On 31 Jul 2025 13:30:01 GMT, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> wrote:

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> >wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Are any of us except Todal claiming to decide how God will treat
    anyone?

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  • From Jon Ribbens@jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 16:10:35 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 2025-07-31, Martin Harran <martinharran@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 13:30:01 GMT, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> >>wrote:
    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Are any of us except Todal claiming to decide how God will treat
    anyone?

    You certainly claimed that someone is better placed to decide.
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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 17:54:23 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On Thu, 31 Jul 2025 16:10:35 -0000 (UTC), Jon Ribbens <jon+usenet@unequivocal.eu> wrote:

    On 2025-07-31, Martin Harran <martinharran@gmail.com> wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 13:30:01 GMT, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> >>>wrote:
    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Are any of us except Todal claiming to decide how God will treat
    anyone?

    You certainly claimed that someone is better placed to decide.

    Who did I claim is better placed?
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  • From Roger Hayter@roger@hayter.org to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 16:56:36 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 15:41:09 BST, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:

    On 31/07/2025 02:30 PM, Roger Hayter wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com>
    wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Surely that should have been "But is any one of us well-placed?"?

    The two statements are identical in meaning. The 'one' is implied. The
    singular verb establishes that.
    --

    Roger Hayter
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  • From JNugent@JNugent73@mail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 18:08:32 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31/07/2025 04:35 PM, Martin Harran wrote:
    On 31 Jul 2025 13:30:01 GMT, Roger Hayter <roger@hayter.org> wrote:

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 13:41:58 BST, "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com>
    wrote:

    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:30:21 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    snip
    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Are any of us except Todal claiming to decide how God will treat
    anyone?

    Yes, Billy.

    Some of his recent posts have been full of almost catechismal advice on
    moral behaviour, laced with warnings of might happen in default.
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  • From JNugent@JNugent73@mail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 18:16:21 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31/07/2025 05:56 PM, Roger Hayter wrote:

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 15:41:09 BST, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:
    On 31/07/2025 02:30 PM, Roger Hayter wrote:
    "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> wrote:
    The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com> wrote:

    snip

    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an
    "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the
    opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will
    treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Surely that should have been "But is any one of us well-placed?"?

    The two statements are identical in meaning. The 'one' is implied. The singular verb establishes that.

    They are questions, rather than statements (that had to be pointed out - mistaking one for the other is a common usenet error), and are *not*
    identical in meaning.

    One (yours) asks whether any of "us" (however defined) is better placed
    than The Todal to offer religious advice. It was a question of comparison.

    The other (mine) asks whether one of us is even competent to offer
    advice on God's intentions in the first place. No comparison made or necessary.
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  • From Roger Hayter@roger@hayter.org to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 17:23:45 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 18:16:21 BST, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:

    On 31/07/2025 05:56 PM, Roger Hayter wrote:

    On 31 Jul 2025 at 15:41:09 BST, "JNugent" <JNugent73@mail.com> wrote:
    On 31/07/2025 02:30 PM, Roger Hayter wrote:
    "Martin Harran" <martinharran@gmail.com> wrote:
    The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com> wrote:

    snip

    Now, time for you to say your usual bollocks about how I've got an >>>>>> "itch" that needs "scratching". A patronising way to discredit the >>>>>> opinions of others. God punishes liars, Martin.

    I donrCOt think you are the best placed person to decide how God will >>>>> treat anyone.

    But is any of us any better placed?

    Surely that should have been "But is any one of us well-placed?"?

    The two statements are identical in meaning. The 'one' is implied. The
    singular verb establishes that.

    They are questions, rather than statements (that had to be pointed out - mistaking one for the other is a common usenet error), and are *not* identical in meaning.

    One (yours) asks whether any of "us" (however defined) is better placed
    than The Todal to offer religious advice. It was a question of comparison.

    The other (mine) asks whether one of us is even competent to offer
    advice on God's intentions in the first place. No comparison made or necessary.

    Again I think I implied that no one is better placed than someone is not able at all to predict god's actions. Not least because the person who made the original statement probably knows that god doesn't exist.
    --

    Roger Hayter
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  • From The Todal@the_todal@icloud.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Thu Jul 31 21:28:01 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation

    On 31/07/2025 13:55, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Thu, 31 Jul 2025 09:48:10 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 31/07/2025 07:59, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:35:25 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 29/07/2025 09:33, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com> >>>>> Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is >>>>>> an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts >>>>> seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some >>>>> poncy Latin name :-)


    What's more, the phrase "ad hominem" is misused more than it is
    correctly used. Martin thought he had identified an ad hominem in what I >>>> said but he was wrong. It was, if anything, a reductio ad absurdum. If >>>> you disagree with Martin he takes it very personally and sees it as an >>>> ad hominem.

    You choose not to indicate what you actually said that you believe I
    wrong labelled ad hominem. Was it any of the following? If not,
    perhaps you might give some indication of what it was:


    On Tue, 13 May 2025 10:59:20 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    I picture you in short
    trousers as a choirboy in your catholic church, admiring the fake tears >>>> produced by the statue of the Virgin Mary.

    On Tue, 13 May 2025 23:28:53 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    However, I think your personal notion of "love" might be rather
    different from the notion used by non-believers. Yours probably
    resembles the love shown by an angry schoolmaster wielding the cane to >>>> punish a disobedient schoolboy.

    On Thu, 5 Jun 2025 13:52:32 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    Come off it. You're a Catholic. You never challenged anybody. If your
    priest was a predatory paedophile you'd quietly advise the choirboys to >>>> avoid being alone with him and leave it at that.

    On 07/06/2025 16:01, The Todal wrote:
    But you failed to understand that point, because you really aren't an
    expert on very much. If it isn't in your catechism, it's invisible to you. >>>


    Those are ad hominems.

    This one wasn't.

    "Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of
    'em. "

    I canrCOt find anywhere that I said that was ad hominem, please correct
    me if IrCOve missed it.

    Perhaps *you* are suffering memory issues and are getting confused
    with me telling Jon Ribbens that it was just more of your regular anti-Catholic ranting.

    Or maybe confused with your follow up post that I did label as
    ad-hominem where you said

    rCLAs a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning
    obedience to authority. I am surprised to see you complaining about ex cathedra decisions now. Perhaps you have spunk after all. I don't
    think you need to display your spunk as often as you do.rCY

    To give credit where it is due, having previously admitted to
    quote-mining, you now admit to frequent use of ad hominem. Maybe you
    might complete the hat-trick by admitted that when your arguments run
    out of steam, you switch to attacking stuff I never said.



    You haven't attempted to justify your juvenile remark: "Just when I
    thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come back again".

    Now, that's ad hominem. You responded to a perfectly reasonable remark
    from me, then when your remark was rejected you complained how unfair
    that was.

    I suppose whenever anyone mentions priests sexually abusing children you
    are duty bound to take it very personally and deny that such things
    happen. (And you will claim that the preceding sentence is ad hominem,
    when it is accurate criticism of your behaviour)

    You need to see an optician about the beam in your eye. I think Jesus
    would say that it would be best if you were tied to a millstone and cast
    into the sea.


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  • From Martin Harran@martinharran@gmail.com to uk.net.news.moderation on Fri Aug 1 08:06:23 2025
    From Newsgroup: uk.net.news.moderation


    On Thu, 31 Jul 2025 21:28:01 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 31/07/2025 13:55, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Thu, 31 Jul 2025 09:48:10 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 31/07/2025 07:59, Martin Harran wrote:
    On Wed, 30 Jul 2025 12:35:25 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:

    On 29/07/2025 09:33, Jeff Gaines wrote:
    On 29/07/2025 in message <ptug8k1eu431n1b9j4tpm6qm1g4g7a9i54@4ax.com> >>>>>> Martin Harran wrote:

    You still cannot grasp the principle that resorting to ad hominems is >>>>>>> an admission that you don't have any real argument to put up.

    Why don't we move into the 21st century and stick to English, the courts >>>>>> seem to be doing so.

    Why don't we call a personal attack a personal attack instead of some >>>>>> poncy Latin name :-)


    What's more, the phrase "ad hominem" is misused more than it is
    correctly used. Martin thought he had identified an ad hominem in what I >>>>> said but he was wrong. It was, if anything, a reductio ad absurdum. If >>>>> you disagree with Martin he takes it very personally and sees it as an >>>>> ad hominem.

    You choose not to indicate what you actually said that you believe I
    wrong labelled ad hominem. Was it any of the following? If not,
    perhaps you might give some indication of what it was:


    On Tue, 13 May 2025 10:59:20 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    I picture you in short
    trousers as a choirboy in your catholic church, admiring the fake tears >>>>> produced by the statue of the Virgin Mary.

    On Tue, 13 May 2025 23:28:53 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    However, I think your personal notion of "love" might be rather
    different from the notion used by non-believers. Yours probably
    resembles the love shown by an angry schoolmaster wielding the cane to >>>>> punish a disobedient schoolboy.

    On Thu, 5 Jun 2025 13:52:32 +0100, The Todal <the_todal@icloud.com>
    wrote:
    [rCa]
    Come off it. You're a Catholic. You never challenged anybody. If your >>>>> priest was a predatory paedophile you'd quietly advise the choirboys to >>>>> avoid being alone with him and leave it at that.

    On 07/06/2025 16:01, The Todal wrote:
    But you failed to understand that point, because you really aren't an >>>>> expert on very much. If it isn't in your catechism, it's invisible to you.



    Those are ad hominems.

    This one wasn't.

    "Oh, how true. All those kids beaten or molested by nuns or monks
    (especially in Ireland) are probably remembering all wrong. They forget
    all the kindness, all the gentle mentoring. Let's gaslight the lot of
    'em. "

    I canrCOt find anywhere that I said that was ad hominem, please correct
    me if IrCOve missed it.

    Perhaps *you* are suffering memory issues and are getting confused
    with me telling Jon Ribbens that it was just more of your regular
    anti-Catholic ranting.

    Or maybe confused with your follow up post that I did label as
    ad-hominem where you said

    rCLAs a Catholic you must surely be accustomed to unquestioning
    obedience to authority. I am surprised to see you complaining about ex
    cathedra decisions now. Perhaps you have spunk after all. I don't
    think you need to display your spunk as often as you do.rCY

    To give credit where it is due, having previously admitted to
    quote-mining, you now admit to frequent use of ad hominem. Maybe you
    might complete the hat-trick by admitted that when your arguments run
    out of steam, you switch to attacking stuff I never said.



    You haven't attempted to justify your juvenile remark: "Just when I
    thought you had got rid of that itch, it's clearly come back again".

    Now, that's ad hominem. You responded to a perfectly reasonable remark
    from me, then when your remark was rejected you complained how unfair
    that was.

    Your obsession with the Catholic Church isnrCOt just unreasonable, itrCOs unhealthy (for you).


    I suppose whenever anyone mentions priests sexually abusing children you
    are duty bound to take it very personally and deny that such things
    happen.

    And there you go again. I have never ever denied any aspect of child
    abuse or the Catholic ChurchrCOs truly awful handling of it; on the
    contrary, I have unequivocally condemned the Church for how it handled
    it. This is just yet another tiresome example of you realising you
    have no real counter argument to my original point so you try to make
    up something I have never said.


    (And you will claim that the preceding sentence is ad hominem,
    when it is accurate criticism of your behaviour)

    It is not accurate; it is deliberate misrepresentation of my attitude
    to child abuse. ItrCOs not just an ad hominem, itrCOs a deliberate lie and
    rCLI supposerCY does not let you off the hook for that.


    You need to see an optician about the beam in your eye. I think Jesus
    would say that it would be best if you were tied to a millstone and cast >into the sea.

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