• Re: Balticon code of conduct

    From Keith F. Lynch@21:1/5 to Gary McGath on Fri May 16 21:25:06 2025
    Gary McGath <garym@mcgath.com> wrote:
    With Balticon coming around again, I took another look at their code
    of conduct. It still has some disturbing features, and I'm not
    going, although it's within a day's driving distance and will likely
    have a good filk program.

    I too no longer attend Balticon. Partly for the same two reasons as
    you, their rule against ever criticizing any person or group and their unprovoked attack on Stephanie Burke. And partly because of their
    having secret rules and secret interpretations of their non-secret
    rules. For instance it's the only con I know of for which it's
    considered harassment for you to politely ask someone to please leave
    you alone.

    Also, many of the people I went there to see no longer go there.

    Also, the increasing cost of living is causing me to be much more
    selective as to which events I attend. I used to average five or
    six cons each year. Now it's more often just one or two.

    At a fannish event last July, two BSFS board member were talking about
    recent Balticons being unable to get volunteers or staff members.
    (BSFS is the organization that runs Balticon.) A couple hours later,
    there was a conversation about a proposal to ban Worldcons from
    totalitarian countries such as China. One fan, a lawyer, suggested
    that it would be difficult to define "totalitarian" rigorously.
    Someone suggested that it should be defined as, if someone denounces
    the nation's ruler during opening ceremonies, they would go to jail.
    Someone objected that lots of cons have rules against criticizing
    people. Only then did I speak up, and say that cons can't jail you,
    but can only kick you out -- and that I wasn't aware of any cons that
    had any such rule, except Balticon, at which point I looked directly
    at the two BSFS board members. They stared back at me with looks of
    utter hatred. I think I also mentioned that, so long as the con makes
    no secret of that rule, that people can simply choose not to attend,
    as many, including me, have done with Balticon.

    In short, I think Balticon is slowly dying due to dysfunctional
    management.

    For the record, I attended 23 Balticons, followed by two virtual
    Balticons during the pandemic. I volunteered at all of them, often
    arriving a day early and leaving a day late so as to held with setup
    and teardown, and with loading and unloading.
    --
    Keith F. Lynch - http://keithlynch.net/
    Please see http://keithlynch.net/email.html before emailing me.

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  • From Keith F. Lynch@21:1/5 to Gary McGath on Wed May 7 12:56:42 2025
    Gary McGath <garym@mcgath.com> wrote:
    I used to go to Balticon semi-regularly, since a lot of filkers went
    there. I have good memories of those cons.

    As do I. But that was when Ellen Caswell, Jack Chalker, Hal Clement,
    Martin Deutsch, Jeannie Dunnington, Dick Eney, Marty and Bobby Gear,
    Erica Ginter, Hal Haag, Dan Hoey, Irv Koch, Yoji Kondo, Keith Marshall,
    Joe Mayhew, Mark Owings, Paul and Aly Parsons, Don Sakers, Peggy Rae
    Sapienza, Charles Sheffield, Ellen Vartanoff, And Martin Morse Wooster
    were still alive.

    Many of the above-mentioned fans and pros worked hard to create,
    maintain, and improve BSFS, Balticon, and the BSFS clubhouse. They're
    lucky they didn't live to see the actions of the current crew.

    Several people have noticed that the current board's wrath seems to
    be strongest against those who do the most work and against those who
    attract the most fans. One theory is that they're confused about how non-profits work, and think that if they can get everyone else to
    drop out, they can divide the clubhouse and other club assets among
    themselves.
    --
    Keith F. Lynch - http://keithlynch.net/
    Please see http://keithlynch.net/email.html before emailing me.

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